Second-cousins dating -- we're afraid the family will have a problem with it
Q. I have been seeing my second cousin for a little while now and we both have very stong feelings for each other but we are scard what are family and other people will think of us being together, its driving us both crazy and we dont know what to ...
A. 3 March 2013: Legally it's not an issue at all, second cousins are permitted to marry in most western countries. It's more how the family views such a relationship, you might already have an idea how your parents and his will take the news? It's really not unco... (read in full...)
I want to approach him about hanging out with me, but don't know what to do
Q. dear cupid, so i've had this crush on this guy since university started. he's 25 and i'm 18 and he's currently doing his masters but we have one class together because he needs the class to get into medschool. we've had lab class and lectur...
A. 2 December 2012: Sharing classes is already a great excuse to hang out after! Just go, hey you free after class today, wanna grab a coffee.... or if you really want a concrete reason, say, I'd like to discuss class topic, would like to hear your input etc. After all ... (read in full...)
I started dating a gorgeous, model-like, ambitious, cheeky guy, and he's now turned into an overweight, boozy, attention seeking boy!
Q. This is really tricky and I'd appreciate both male and female help with this. I've been with my lovely boyfriend who I care deeply for for two and a half years. When I met him he had model looks, a great body and I couldn't keep my hands off him....
A. 22 August 2012: One thing to consider, if he hasn't done it, is to do a medical/blood test, which is straightforward and simple. Aside from lifestyle, sometimes there is an underlying medical condition which accounts for the weight gain, (which seems pretty severe ... (read in full...)
Did his feelings for me really change?
Q. I never thought I'd be one to seek out help from strangers but my current situation is tearing me apart by the minute and it's only been about 4 days. I've been seeing someone (romantically) for about 4 months but we've been getting to know ...
A. 15 August 2012: From your description, he's just undergone a major life trauma. In my experience, for a guy to lose his job, financial stability, lack of direction in his career is a huge blow to him, and may even cause depression. Right now his focus will be on ... (read in full...)
He's 30 years older and I have a major crush on him. What can I do? He's a real gentleman.
Q. Hi folks! Im seriouslyhaving an emotional problem now and cant ask anyone I know, please help! Ive been recently spending a little time with a man who I think likes me..... the only problem is He's like 30 years older than me and I am starting to l...
A. 4 August 2012: As long as you're sure he's available, then just enjoy each day as it comes, as you would any other relationship. Why would making "moves" be improper? I don't mean throwing yourself at him but showing some interest in return, if you do have ... (read in full...)
Fell in love with a guy after a week and now trying to have a LDR in another language! Help!
Q. So. Problem. I'm absolutely in love with a wonderful young man who I met during the summer over the course of a week. After that week, of course, we each returned to our respective homes, and are now literally thousands of miles apart. The chanc...
A. 21 December 2011: I don't feel that the main problem is language, but rather it's a LDR, with no end in sight. That, in my opinion, is the unfeasible part. You can't develop a relationship virtually and keep it going with goal so to speak, it's not the same as a ... (read in full...)
Was I too harsh on him? Should I move on or reach out to him?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate advice on my situation. It's difficult to be objective at the moment. I went for a first date with a guy I met online (dating site), we'd only exchanged few emails, it wasn't anything special but I still decided to meet ...
A. 13 December 2011: Thank you for your advice!
To diamondshards: He was quite tipsy but I don't think he was trying for a quick and easy romp, though I agree he did try his luck with the kisses. I felt my messages to him after he cancelled the date were quite ha... (read in full...)
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