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Am I doing the right thing by waiting?

Q.   I have a huge problem. I have a big crush on my best friend's older brother. I'm 16 and he is 22. I have talked to him about it and he told me that he would wait for me to turn 18. Am i wasting my time waiting, or am i doing the right thing? I just...

A.   15 April 2008: you're not crazy. you could enjoy being sixteen for the moment, have boyfriends, stay up late, get in trouble.... you know the kind of stuff. just live for the moment. when you turn eighteen, talk to him then, f you both still feel the same, then go ... (read in full...)

Do I keep waiting and risk getting hurt? Or let him go and risk being alone forever??

Q.   Ok, I am 15 years old and I live in a girls group home. I've been in some trouble before. Mostly just running away from home and things. I have an abandonedment issue. My mom left me around the time I was 10 and didn't give a warning at all. Before ...

A.   15 April 2008: i think you need to take the risk, this guy seems to like you, so he may be worth waiting for. i don't know many guys that would just give up drugs and alcohol for a girl, that's a powerful thing o do. but don'tlet him abuse you again, people do ... (read in full...)

Say what you want what you really really want. ziga ziga haa!

Q.   Why do i get dumped when i use a sensitive, attentive approach to women, usually with the 'i like you as a friend' speech. It seems the type of guy they say they want are very different from the guy they are truly looking for. Any advice? I've ...

A.   15 April 2008: honestly, i think you need to be yourself. some girls can be offended by the "i only like you as a friend" speach. you need to be clear about how you are feeling and what you want out of the relationship. ... (read in full...)

How can I convince her I'm perfect?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years. We broke up because I was emailing with another girl (there was no physical cheating). I have also done this once before, which caused us our first break up, but after a month of...

A.   15 April 2008: well if you are so convinced that she cares, then you need to prove that you care for her to trust you again. for quite alot of girls, trust can be hard, you should try showing her that you understand how you hurt her and what was wrong with what ... (read in full...)

Will I ever find love?

Q.   hello i'm a virgin and i know that there are alot of genuine females but my penis is little between 2 and 3 in" well i ever find true love...

A.   15 April 2008: you will find true love, there is someone for everyone. the right girl won't mind how big you penis is, so don't give up hope. when you have a girlfriend, be open about your worries, that way you can get past them together. everyone has their ... (read in full...)

Two questions, one on how to start a conversation and one that friends have a problem with...

Q.   i kind of have 2 questions but there is a girl i likebut didn't know how to aproach her as to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her any form of help will be apriciated and my second is that she is in year 8 and ...

A.   15 April 2008: well firstly, you could start by saying "hi". being a girl, i know that if an older guy talks to her, she will think it's so cool. you only need tobe yourself around her, because if she doesn't like that, then she's not really woth it. if she does ... (read in full...)

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