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Does he want me... or what?

Q.   Right ive been seeing this guy for about 5 months, things are really complicated however, ive just come out of a 5 year marriage (no affair, i met my new bloke after) Well anyway everything was going great, we spent a weekend together then nothing. ...

A.   24 August 2006: In my opinion a persons "gut" feeling is very seldom wrong. Go with your gut and move on. Good luck GM... (read in full...)

I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!

Q.   How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and ...

A.   24 August 2006: Hi Danno. What a pity you feel this way so soon into your marriage. I think you both need to seek the help of a councelor equipped to help you in this. This of course if you both still want to stay in the marriage. Marriage is no marriage if one ... (read in full...)

I am 60 years old, how can I reach orgasm?

Q.   Hi. I am a 60 year old female, have been in a marriage for 30 years, the last 25 years of this marriage has been without sex with my husband (or anybody else). I have resorted to clitorial stimulation of myself in the time of need. I have ...

A.   17 August 2006: Hi Dr. Pete, Please do not apologise on behalf of judgemental people, but I thank you for that anyway. No I have not seen a doctor on the problem and I honestly do not think it is related to "guilt". I have been deprived of a mans touch for many ... (read in full...)

I am 60 years old, how can I reach orgasm?

Q.   Hi. I am a 60 year old female, have been in a marriage for 30 years, the last 25 years of this marriage has been without sex with my husband (or anybody else). I have resorted to clitorial stimulation of myself in the time of need. I have ...

A.   16 August 2006: To No. 1 answer: The question asked was not "what shall I do", but what can I do to help increase my libido. Circumstances given was to explain the lack of male participation for so long, now suddenly a male has appeared that would actually enjoy ... (read in full...)

Sis steals my friends!

Q.   My sister always steals my friends. For the last year she has been dating my neighbor who has been my friend for like 10 years. It drives me nuts when I come home and her and him are there. I feel angry at him for ignoring me when she's around. I ...

A.   15 August 2006: Ignore them when you feel angry, they are enjoying your reaction. If he ignores you when she is around, he does not have your feelings in consideration, he is not worth it. Move on. GM... (read in full...)

I'm having sex with my ex, and I don't know what it means!

Q.   My ex and I recently broke up. I was heartbroken and wanted him back bad. He told me he cares about me but just cant be in a relationship right now. He said he wants me in his life and wants me to be a close friend. So, i tried to do as he wants. I ...

A.   15 August 2006: He is just using you, make a break, close the door and you will find another open around the corner. You are worth more than just being a sex partner. It will never be more. Good Luck GM... (read in full...)

I thought the guy was 17, like me... but he's only 12!

Q.   I'm 17 and I met this guy who I presumed was the same age as he looked so old, but then I found out he was 12! I'm so confused as he looks and acts my age. He's so sweet, I've never met anyone like him before, but I can't help thinking it's wrong as ...

A.   15 August 2006: You are far to young to think about involvement, make him a good friend, but make sure you do not encourage him to think it is more. Good Luck GM... (read in full...)

Pretty sure this person is gay, should I trust my instinct and make a move ?

Q.   If you get the vibes that someone is gay/lesbian - and your nearly 100% sure. You really feel that person is attracted to you but a major issue could be holding them back. Should you trust your intuition and make a move???...

A.   11 August 2006: First rule of thumb, ALWAYS trust your instincts. Move on...... (read in full...)

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