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writes: Right ive been seeing this guy for about 5 months, things are really complicated however, ive just come out of a 5 year marriage (no affair, i met my new bloke after) Well anyway everything was going great, we spent a weekend together then nothing. I didnt hear anything for a week so i got in contact with him. Now he says he wants to wait untill ive moved back home so that we can have a normal relationship and not have to sneak around (my ex is here you see). The problem is ive got a gut feeling hes hiding something and hes just fobbing me off till i leave then il never hear anything again. I am so confused. He says im being paranoid, but thats it he wants no contact with me untill i leave because its to hard to speak to me while im here and not being able to see me when im just up the road! What is going on?
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reader, GM +, writes (24 August 2006):
In my opinion a persons "gut" feeling is very seldom wrong. Go with your gut and move on. Good luck GM
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): He is absolutely right to set that ground rule. He wants to know for certain if you are serious about him and having the Ex haning around is sure as hell uncomfortable and questionable, no matter what your intentions are...actions!!
This is a reasonable request.
You want a relationship with the man; then do what he is asking. Move out on your own, end it completely.
Good luck.
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