Am I moving on too fast with the girl from my past?
Q. So about a month ago I was cheated on and ended a 5 year relationship. Just the other week I reconnected with a girl from my past and we really hit it off. I'm a little uneasy because I don't know if I am moving on too quick. I really never fel...
A. 30 March 2015: It's important for you to make sure if you really healed and forgave your ex. You might not care about your ex no more because they cheated but have you forgiving them? Are really over your past relationship? I think it's important to take things ... (read in full...)
My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?
Q. Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so ...
A. 30 March 2015: Don't think like that girl... Honestly it's not doing you any favours... I went through the same thing and it caused to me be so depressed for a long time.. Focus on yourself... Focus on building yourself up... Reconnect with yourself again... Find ... (read in full...)
His status is set as "single," how would you handle that?
Q. Hey guys. Please help me. If you had been in an exclusive relationship with someone for almost seven months when you found their OKCupid profile was still active (last logged in yesterday afternoon) with its status set to single, how would you ...
A. 30 March 2015: Don't stress about it. It might mean nothing it might mean something. Communication is key in relationships and trust. Speak to him about it. Be honest with him and yourself. If he doesn't appreciate you and doesn't seem to care then you know you ... (read in full...)
He has a Gf. He also told me he loves me. I have a crush on him. What should I do ?
Q. Last month (February) I told my male best friend that I have developed feelings for him. For a while we flirted but he had a girlfriend. Yesterday however we went out to the park and he told me that he loves me when he still has a girlfrie...
A. 30 March 2015: Just ask yourself. How would you feel if you had a bf and he was doing that with another girl? Frankly it's not right and clearly you know that what he's doing to you and her is wrong. Do you believe in karma? Honestly. You deserve to be with ... (read in full...)
Am I being impatient that he hasn't asked me out yet?
Q. Ok so I think this guy at school likes me (not being arrogant but logically the signs seem that he does) and I like him back. The problem is he is incredibly stubborn and in previous relationships he's been shot down and so he's very protected, his ...
A. 30 March 2015: Be patient. If he likes you that ,he will ask u out eventually. In the mean time don't focus your time on wanting to ask you out. Relax. Enjoy your life. Relationships take time to build. ... (read in full...)
Have feelings for former co-worker. Is it meant to be? And I am married to another man
Q. i am married. it seemed to be ok until I met a guy at work. the attraction grew for past years despite my attempts to stop it. few weeks ago I quit as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I felt he felt the same about me, although he never sai...
A. 30 March 2015: I mean marriage is for better or worse. This may just be you trying to forget your problems with your ex. If your married honestly try to work it out with your ex. Trust me. ... (read in full...)
He only talks to me when he is drunk!
Q. I don't know if I should continue trying or step away. I've known this guy for over 5 years. he is well aware that I like him however there is a huge age gap.which I believe may be the reason why we haven't become anything, nor has he tried mak...
A. 30 March 2015: Don't try too hard trying to figure what he wants. Focus on what you want. You are making it about him.. Do you feel like he's treating fairly? Honestly wouldn't it be nice to speak to someone that is actuallly sober when speaking to you. Honestly ... (read in full...)
The married man I'm seeing has now pulled back. What am I supposed to think?
Q. I met a man, he's married. We've been seeing each other but only slept together that first night... It's been 5 weeks of texting and short visits. We have very strong feelings for each other. He said he doesn't want to drag me into his mess, also ...
A. 30 March 2015: He is married. Move on and find someone who isn't married. Your worth more than that. Focus on yourself. Don't chase him. He a grown man I'm sure he knows what he's doing. ... (read in full...)
He left because after I had our children he was not attracted to me.
Q. I'm sitting here pretty emotional tonight. You probably get questions having to do with this subject often, but how can a young woman work on body confidence? When I was only 19 I gave birth to beautiful twin baby girls. I had a normal pregnancy...
A. 30 March 2015: When I was with my ex boyfriend I gained a lil weight myself. I was so insecure about it and when we broke up, I began eating and drinking more. However, when I stopped feeling sorry for myself I realised that being depressed about it sodding help ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...
A. 30 March 2015: First of all there's nothing ridiculous in feeling this way! It's clear you have a self esteem issue. What's ridiculous is that you don't know your worth!!! Know your worth. If your boyfriend doesn't appreciate you and like you for you then honestly ... (read in full...)
How can I calm my sexual urges and lessen my need to think about sex constantly ?
Q. I'm a 21 year old female from a religious background and a virgin. I'm not supposed to date or have premarital sex. I'm not even supposed to masturbate but being a human I do anyways. But recently,that hasn't been helping me suppress my sexual ...
A. 30 March 2015: As a Christain I can only give you bible verses to answer your question. God sais. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. A... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm dating a little boy instead of a man?
Q. So I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now and for the most part everything is great. However, he is 24 without a car(he longboards) and has not found his career path yet. Last year he was planning on going into the military but he could...
A. 30 March 2015: I was in a similar position. Firstly I think it's important that you know your worth. I'm not saying break up with him because that wouldn't be practical but clearly you know what you deserve and it's important that your boyfriend sees that too ... (read in full...)
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