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I have tired of putting my life on hold for him...am I being impatient and should I wait?

Q.   I live with man whom I love dearly. He has 2 children who don't want to associate with me. We both left our ex's for each other.I have asked him what are his intentions for the future as I want us to be a couple and to start to set goals. However, ...

A.   13 September 2006: I have been in a very similar situation to you although we left our partners for each other but no-one new this. I felt very impatient with my partner and at times despaired because I loved him so much and believed he loved me although sometimes ... (read in full...)

I have tired of putting my life on hold for him...am I being impatient and should I wait?

Q.   I live with man whom I love dearly. He has 2 children who don't want to associate with me. We both left our ex's for each other.I have asked him what are his intentions for the future as I want us to be a couple and to start to set goals. However, ...

A.   13 September 2006: I have been in a very similar situation to you although we left our partners for each other but no-one new this. I felt very impatient with my partner and at times despaired because I loved him so much and believed he loved me although sometimes ... (read in full...)

My male friend is gay, we had sex, now im pregnant!

Q.   I have been in love with a male friend for a long time, but he's gay. I intentionally got him drunk and seduced him. Even though we had really great sex, he said that he still prefers men. I just found out I'm pregnant with his child. Part of me ...

A.   12 September 2006: Yes of course you should tell him, this child is his too. Think about your child, honesty is always the best policy with children right from the beginning of their lives so that they fully accept their situation as normal and happy and settled. If ... (read in full...)

He says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but is he just using me ??

Q.   Me and this guy have been talking for four months and we are really in to each other but we aren't together as a couple. He told me that he liked me but he didn't want a girlfriend right now but I feel like I'm being used for his personal pleasure. ...

A.   11 September 2006: This is a very common thing for young men to say, unfortunately men have a way of manipulating women to being in a position where they do enough to encourage you so you really like him and are willing to do sexual things with them and then they keep ... (read in full...)

17 and fancy a married man

Q.   I'm 17 and have liked a particular guy for 3 years. The problem is he is married, is 39 and now has a baby. His wife works away and I'm often round there and am tempted to make a move. I think he likes me -he shows me loads of respect is quite ...

A.   9 September 2006: I think htat as you are 17 you should find someone else. If he really does have true loving feelings for you then let him deal with his current relationship in his own way and don't get tangled up in a bitter divorce. He is the one in a relationship ... (read in full...)

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