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... Send *etUp a private message | | | *etUp's profile:"Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something."
"Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear."
"Let’s get one thing straight
You are not your hair
Frizzy, smooth, or limp
You are not your feet
Colossal, average, or tiny
You are not your thighs
Scrawny, muscular, or dimpled
You are not your looks
What you are is far more than the eye can see
You are your culture
You are your history
You are your quirks
You are your talents
You are your goals and accomplishments
You are your relationships
You are your spirit
And absolutely none of these can be judged by a photograph." |
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Is a bondage/domination fetish embarrassing?
Q. I have kept my kinks under wraps for a few years and since breaking up with my girlfriend, I wanted a fresh view. I have been worried that women would be put off by my kinks because they do not match the friendly, kind personality I have. I guess ...
A. 2 May 2012: Do you mean that you like being dominated or being the dominating one? I think that suppressing your sexual needs is the worst thing you can do, but if you find a girl you like who doesn't quite meet your needs, you can always try to work around i... (read in full...)
Guys I talk to think I'm flirting, but I don't even know how to flirt!
Q. One of my friends keep telling me not to talk to boys the way I do, and he says that I "don't know what I do to other guys." I've tried asking him what he meant, but he shrugged it off. I'm almost certain that he's talking about flirting, but I ...
A. 30 January 2012: Thanks so much for trying to help. But honestly, I treat guys like I do girls. I smile, joke, DON'T twirl my hair, and include minimal touching (I hate touching or hugging except for with my family). This is how I establish friendships. I'm not ... (read in full...)
Could I meet the right person in college?
Q. I'm a senior in high school and really want a girlfriend. I'm very nice, sweet, tough, have confidence and sometimes I feel like a good guy for the ladies. I never had one and I see a lot of my friends dating. I going to be separated from my high ...
A. 30 January 2012: It's really good that you can see these great characteristics of yourself. I think that's a vital step in achieving a girlfriend. I just hope that you're not trying to rush things just because you see your friends with girls, and you feel like you ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my g/f I've cheated on her multiple times?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. Things were great. We even talked about and planned wedding stuff. I had no doubts the she was the one. It was truly amazing. Here's the first thing. I've cheated on her multiple...
A. 24 November 2011: I've got to go with Rescuer on this one. I can't even fathom the idea of a boyfriend cheating on his girl with six different women, then later saying that she's the best girlfriend you've ever had. If I were her and I found out, I'd just be.... ... (read in full...)
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