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We were getting on great until I told him I have kids

Q.   Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by ...

A.   27 February 2010: Fact is most guys just won't be interested in a single mother - unless the guy already has kids of his own. I hate to be blunt but I don't think you have a chance with this one, better to move on.... (read in full...)

My husband's porn use has affected me badly..is this normal?

Q.   Okay, this is going to be very long so please bear with me. When I first got with my boyfriend in August '08, I made it very clear to him that some very bad things had happened to me in the past concerning sex when I was only young, and that bec...

A.   24 February 2010: What a ridiculous thing to do! You should leave the poor guy because frankly no one deserves to put up with this crap! You are making him feel guilty for something that is completely normal for a man to do - threatening self harm shows that you... (read in full...)

Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching

Q.   I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...

A.   21 February 2010: I honestly can't believe the number of women posting on this site regarding porn issues. Firstly ALL MEN WATCH PORN! Most men watch it every day if they have access to it. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with watching porn! If I were yo... (read in full...)

Why do people think it is so horrible for sixteen year olds to have sex?

Q.   I'm 16 and have been dating this boy for almost two years now. He's 19 and he was my first, but I wasn't his. I was just wondering why everyone seems to consider sex at my age so horrible? I have never once regretted my decision. Of course the first ...

A.   19 February 2010: I think 16 is a pretty standard age to start having sex. Biologically speaking a woman's body is designed to have children between the ages of 15-25 and back in the days when people only lived to 40 it was perfectly normal. However, with much lon... (read in full...)

Do I go to the American embassy to get the ball rolling in plans to migrate to NY from the UK

Q.   Who do i go to help me get the ball rolling with plans to migrate to new york. The American embassy? i have no idea how to set up accommodation there what to do job wise i just know that that is where i want to live! i'm 18 and i would like to be ...

A.   17 February 2010: I hate to give bad news but I doubt you'll be able to move just like that. You need a company to sponsor you (quite costly for the company) and you need a high degree of qualification. or You can immigrate through investment (ie if you've... (read in full...)

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