We both said NO to any drugs..now I find out he's doing "ecstasy"! What can I do?
Q. My long term boyfriend and I (6 years since the age of 15) have grown up together, but it has been easy as we have always shared the same morals and values. One of these values was a strictly anti drugs stance. When our friends first started on ...
A. 2 December 2006: i am very anti drug.
he isnt taking them all the time, as he dosent go out that often, and he has only just started to take them due to his new set of friends (which dissapoints me because it makes me think him weak and suseptable) There is littl... (read in full...)
We both said NO to any drugs..now I find out he's doing "ecstasy"! What can I do?
Q. My long term boyfriend and I (6 years since the age of 15) have grown up together, but it has been easy as we have always shared the same morals and values. One of these values was a strictly anti drugs stance. When our friends first started on ...
A. 2 December 2006: i have spoken to him, he knows that i hate it and he understands that but he was so rational with his reasonings behind it that i didnt know what to say. I have now been sitting here upset about it for days, but is it fair for me to stop him doing ... (read in full...)
I drive myself crazy with guilt. Can I fix this?
Q. Guilt is running my life and driving me crazy! I work very hard at college and it really means a lot to me. But if I can't get there for some reason or I'm ill and can't do the work I said I would, I feel guilty for days until I've done something to ...
A. 1 December 2006: i feel the same as you!! i get guilt pains from things i remember that happened years ago! i also get stressed easily and it lasts for ages, in the pit of my stomach or my chest. i get bad headaches.... (read in full...)
My fiance and I have split, but we still love each other - how can I win her back?
Q. my fiancee recently split up with me and even though i know she still loves me, and i still love her with all my heart i cant seem to win her back!! we have always had a good relationship and now that she has finished university she is in limbo and ...
A. 1 December 2006: My bf and i have a wonderful relationship and have done for 6 years. i am worried that when me and my bf finish uni he will be in limbo too and i may loose him, so i really sympathise and all i can do for you is sit with you and wait for ... (read in full...)
He's addicted to porn and it's affecting our sex life. I've suggested counceling and he's not interested! Help!
Q. Hi, I recently found my boyfriend with alot of porn dvd's. He travels for long periods of time and we have before talked about his hotel movie watching. However I think he's now addicted. When we make love he's not able to climax--needs to rest....
A. 1 December 2006: wether he is addicted or not, he is obviously sacrificing real sex in your relationship for porn, and this is damaging. i dont know what to suggest to do if you have already spoken to him and he is not interested in fixing this.
im sorry about yo... (read in full...)
I feel like he should want to see me more. I don't want to push him but it's making me frustrated!
Q. Please help me understand this one. Men your opions would be good. Been seeing my man now for eight months he says he loves me. But we still only see each other one night in the week, and most nights of the weekend. Although sometimes on a Friday he ...
A. 1 December 2006: i wouldnt be so drastic about it. I only had the chance to see my bf 2 nights a week, and sometimes he wanted to see his friends instead of being with me. It was just unfortunate that i could only see him at the weekend, but he could only see his ... (read in full...)
I dream of a mysterious male figure kissing and touching me. Is it just hormones or what?
Q. i am only 15 years old i always and dream stuff about me getting kissed, touched etc stuff like that by a mysterious figure figure of a male. people tell me its just hormones, but i enjoy it. i need to know what is going on? and why do i dream of ...
A. 1 December 2006: Hey, i used to get really good ones, just like you like an episode! My mysterious man was always a sexy university lecturer with glasses. I was the librarian!!! Years later, Im now going out with a physics graduate, thinking of teaching. he wont ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to use a condom and suggested I go on the pill - but that doesn't protect from std's! What can I do?
Q. hey, i been goin out with my boyfriend for a while now and we have decided to go all the way. there is one problem though, he wont use a condom:( hes asked me to go onto the pill, but he's been really understanding about it and said if i didnt wa...
A. 1 December 2006: Just be blunt about it. He is being unreasonable here. You should offer to have one aswell, to show him that its just something that needs to be done and you arnt suggesting anything about him. ... (read in full...)
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