How do I break away from my abusive ex and stay away from him? He confuses me.
Q. i have been with this man for five years, this is our second break up. what led to our break up was he started doing more drinking and smoking weed. he has never done this before. it seems like when we got back together for the second time is when...
A. 18 December 2011: You love this man, yes. But he has not only physically hurt you, he emotionally manipulates you, still. Because he knows he can get away with it! Be firm with him. Do not keep having sex with him. You broke up with him for a reason, tell him t... (read in full...)
She's been acting distant since I showed up late for a date. Should I just call it quits?
Q. Hi, I have recently noticed the girl I've been seeing has distanced herself from me. She hasn't really talked to me properly since I was late for our last date. She offered to meet again the next day to make up for the time we lost. She didn't call ...
A. 18 December 2011: Hi OP, I'm glad to hear you two talked. The best thing you can do now is wait and see what time brings you. Best of luck! :)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated with multiple girls
Q. Found out my boyfriend cheated on me with 5 girls from my area Including MY BEST FRIEND. His defence was " technically we're not in a relationship its more of a friends with benifets thing " He introduced me to his family as his girlfriend, birthday ...
A. 17 December 2011: Find a new boyfriend, and a new "best friend". You don't need people like that in your life.... (read in full...)
Do I pick the good guy or the bad guy?
Q. help me!!!! I love two men and have no idea what to do.... one is a good guy ones a bad guy but I just dont know who to choose!...
A. 17 December 2011: The good guy. I've dated bad guys and they are not worth the heartache.... (read in full...)
My Bf had a message in the drafts folder of his phone saying, "I don't even know why I'm with (my name), she's f**king gross bro, like who hasn't f***ed her."!!
Q. so basically the other day my boyfriend and I of 4 months got in a fight because he found out that I had dated this guy he knows that he thinks is DISGUSTING. It doesn't make sense also because this happened like 6 years ago, it's not fair that he's ...
A. 17 December 2011: You checked his phone, which puts you in a tough situation. Regardless of your justification, he will think you don't trust him. And it already looks like he's struggling to trust you over your past. The best thing for you guys to do is talk this ... (read in full...)
She's been acting distant since I showed up late for a date. Should I just call it quits?
Q. Hi, I have recently noticed the girl I've been seeing has distanced herself from me. She hasn't really talked to me properly since I was late for our last date. She offered to meet again the next day to make up for the time we lost. She didn't call ...
A. 17 December 2011: You showed up late ... she then left the ball in your court so that if you were interested you could then call her. You didn't call ... yes, you blew it. Sadly, us women can sometimes talk in code ... we don't always say what's on our mind when yo... (read in full...)
Do girls think about their ex's penis
Q. I was wondering if girls think about the size of their ex's penis. My girlfriend made it a point to tell me the sizes of her ex and it hurt my self esteem because i'm just average. And she sounded like she was gloating for them. For me and guys I ...
A. 9 December 2011: I don't give two hoots about my partner's penis size, and your girlfriend shouldn't either if regardless you both enjoy a happy, fulfilling sex life.... (read in full...)
I am unable to bear the pair of my co-worker's marriage
Q. I am married but in love with colleague in office who now got married as per her parents wishes. I am not able to bear the pain of her marriage and its hurting a lot and unable to concentrate on work and my family. We continue to see and work wit...
A. 9 December 2011: Agreed with Mariab - you need to move on from this! Think of your wife, and think of their new marriage; this can only end badly.... (read in full...)
Where is the trust?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. He lives about a half an hour away from me, and I have to use my mother's car so we end up seeing each other a few times a week. A couple nights before we made it official, I got drunk with a...
A. 9 December 2011: If you want to make this a serious relationship, you need to sort out the trust issues. Without trust it will NOT work.
You may have to accept however that he might never trust you and take it from there. You should not have to justify yourself... (read in full...)
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