How do I encourage him to show a greater interest in me, without scaring him away?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm have just started a new relationship with a man who is going through a divorce. He is still young and has no children - he was only married for a few years before he realized it wasn't working - he has been separated for ne...
A. 12 November 2009: I think you are absolutely right when you say that he is probably just not ready to care for you in that way right now. Going through a divorce, even if it is amicable and even if it is for the best is really hard. I too divorced after a 3 year m... (read in full...)
Smitten after 2 weeks of dating, how do I stop my insecurities from ruining this relationship?
Q. I have met a guy I'm totally smitten with after only being together for two weeks. I think he's about to dump me due to my own stupid insecurities and related behavior (constantly seeking reassurance and doubting his motives for being with me). I ...
A. 10 November 2009: When you first fall in love with someone it's absulotely normal to feel some insecurity and miss the object of your affection. Nothing wrong with that.
However if these negative feelings take over and all you have is pain and fear somethin... (read in full...)
Husband cheated, don't want to stay but don't want to destroy our family
Q. I've been married for almost three years now my husband has put me down and called me names our whole relationship I left him july of last year for cheating on me but I came back cause I found out I was pregnant I thought that things would change ...
A. 13 September 2009: Get out while you can. He is never, ever going to change. If he abused you and cheated on you, he will continue doing it. You owe it to your child to be the best mom you can. One who doesn't spend her energy and time dealing with an abusive, tw... (read in full...)
Should I stay secretly unhappy in love?
Q. I need help? I am in a de-facto relationship of 18 months, we have bought a lovely home together. I love him very much but unfortunately it is the old hollywood line "I love him but I'm not IN love with him". I don't want to hurt him, I thought I ...
A. 13 September 2009: Aaaah, the dreaded 18 months mark. You no longer have those crazy in love hormones to carry you through rough patches and disillusions. Reality sets in.
It is hard for us to tell you what you should do. If you're unhappy, something should change, ... (read in full...)
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