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I'm dieting and exercising, why am I not losing more weight?

Q.   i have recently begun a diet. weightwatchers to be precise. i dont go to any meetings as i cant afford this but i have the newest book and have researched alot into it. i am 5ft2 and at the beginning i weighed 11st10pounds. which i know is very ove...

A.   18 February 2009: a very easy and effective stomach exercise is whenever your sitting standing etc, pull your stomach muscles in. start by exhaling, and when you inhale contract your muscles inwards, hold for a few seconds, (make sure you still breathe normally)then ... (read in full...)

Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone & not just one of her sexuall patners?

Q.   Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone and not just one of her *****? Am middle eastern man who was 24 (now49)when I first met this middle eastern gal in college in the US. I was able to feel so good wit...

A.   28 July 2008: perhaps, if you are still in contact with her, tell her you want to be with her on her terms. tell her she will set the pace of how fast or slow your relationship will go and make sure you keep to it if she agrees. do not ask anything of her. let ... (read in full...)

Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone & not just one of her sexuall patners?

Q.   Am I a fool to think that after all her other relationships she can be mine alone and not just one of her *****? Am middle eastern man who was 24 (now49)when I first met this middle eastern gal in college in the US. I was able to feel so good wit...

A.   26 July 2008: I think this girl is using you as her fall back guy for when shes lonely or when its convenient or bed buddy, she shows no sign of wanting serious relationships or commitment. she doesnt care about you, like you wish she would. you need to thin... (read in full...)

I found a sexy text from another woman on my husband's phone. He said he hasn't done anything wrong.

Q.   I have just found a sexy text from another woman on my husbands phone. It was under a mans name and in his language (which I can understand) I confronted him, he claimed that he met her on the yahoo chat and gave his number cos he was bored and now ...

A.   23 July 2008: thanks for all the replies, Yesterday when i confronted him with the txt, he actually broke his sim and phone in half claiming he wants nothing to do with her, but this was because i asked him to call her in front of me. I didnt really get a chance ... (read in full...)

Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!

Q.   I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...

A.   27 September 2005: I think your friend did know what he was doing, never the less, even if he didn't know you should tell your boyfriend, after all it is not your fault and you shouldnt feel like it was. What if the friend decides to tell him himself? then it will ... (read in full...)

Things were great at first. Now he's quiet and tired and the sex has disappeared...

Q.   I've been with my fella for 9 months. Everything was great at first but recently things have changed. He doesn't seem to make the effort and with regards to sex, he won't unless I initiate it. I love him dearly, he's 38, I'm 26. He's a quiet pe...

A.   27 September 2005: You mentioned that he has been working a lot recently and that he has family problems, so it could be stress that is affecting his libido. Offer to talk to him if he has a problem, but do it away from the bedroom so he doesn't feel he's being ... (read in full...)

Should I have a go with a woman of 39?

Q.   Hiya, I'm 16 years old and I'm dating a woman of 39. She looks good. We are always having a laugh. She's always there for me and we are great together. We're talking about making a proper go of things. She doesn't have any children, and is...

A.   27 September 2005: I think you should follow what your heart is saying. It does't matter the age as long as you are happy. Sometimes with relationships involving someone a lot older than the other is that the older person starts to behave more superior, in a way ... (read in full...)

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