Should I trust my gut instinct about him?
Q. should I trust my gut instinct ? My long term boyfriend and father of my two children has been acting really distant . He has gone for " nights out with workmates " more frequently and gone to Paris with work for a week .He now sleeps in a seperate ...
A. 2 June 2009: He's cheating.
I wouldn't confront him as much as I'd just throw him out.
Being "out late" and "gone for a week" isn't normal. Of course, the separate bedroom thing should've been a red flag and you should've thrown him out then and there. Said;... (read in full...)
Ex-girlfriend may be confused, now I'm confused. Help?
Q. Women in particular, I'm looking for some advice. My fiance and I recently split up actually about 8 days ago after 5 years. I found what I thought was cheating, I'm not sure if she was sleeping with the guy or just good friends, when I asked her...
A. 2 June 2009: No. It's not a misunderstanding. She's sleeping around on you and/or having an emotional affair.
I 'cheated' on my ex with my boyfriend now. I put cheated in quotations because this ex was never around as much as I wanted and he was kind of verba... (read in full...)
He likes me, he likes me not, she likes him she likes him not
Q. We're not really friends, more like acquaintances. We KINDA acted like a couple (no intimate things though) and I really thought that he liked me. But then we fell out and he got himself a girlfriend. One that has no feelings for him whatsoever. ...
A. 2 June 2009: Forget about this guy.
He wants an emotional relationship with you because his current girl isn't giving him emotional support. He doesn't want the physical relationship with you because clearly his girl is giving him the sex.
Stop being friend... (read in full...)
'J' and 'A' text me all the time but which one should I go for?
Q. Dear Whoever, I need help! I have two guys who both like me and are trying to get me. They are best friends. I don't want to hurt either of them. One of them told me he likes me... J. He is so nice. He always texts me when i text him. Everyone...
A. 2 June 2009: J doesn't like you. He wants to get you--but he doesn't like you. If you're planning a relationship with him you can forget about the "love" and the "monogamy" part right there--because it ain't happenin' with him.
A likes you a lot.
Go with... (read in full...)
Should I follow my head or my heart?
Q. I felt that my new relationship (4 months) was progressing great. I was taken aback by how it ended. Saturday night we had a nice romantic time together. Sunday we had what I consider being a small argument and she told me on the spot that that ...
A. 2 June 2009: Sounds like she needed an excuse to leave you.
I have put up with a lot of stuff from my boyfriend of 3.5 years.
We've had some small arguments/disagreements. We've had some large arguments/disagreements.
We even have the tendency to spoi... (read in full...)
Do I just expect too much from him?
Q. Ok....Here goes. I've been married for about 3 1/2 years to a man from Africa (...thats right, Africa) I love him very much and try to show him this in different ways. But he on the other hand, has never...ever been able to show me that he really ...
A. 2 June 2009: You do expect too much from him.
You're American. You've been brought up with the expectations of what an American man should do for you.
He's not American. He's African.
So, he's been brought up with the expectations of what an African man shou... (read in full...)
Husband says he doesn't love me because he doesn't feel loved by me
Q. I am 33 years old have been with my husband for 17 years and married for nearly 11. We have had the usual marriage probs but have always pulled through until a few days ago he dropped the bomb shell that he no longer loves me. I'm devastated, we ...
A. 24 May 2009: You only want to work through this because of the kids? That's the sh*tiest reason to ever work through anything. The kids aren't married to the guy. You are. So why don't you work through it for the sake of your marriage. Because if the kids ... (read in full...)
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