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How do I get my self esteem back?

Q.   HI The Break Up was emotionally draining and I have now settled at a more peaceful place which is liberating. My feelings are still bruised and my hear is still very sensitive but im trying to make small steps to move on with my life.....I need ...

A.   15 November 2010: Hi I think the best thing in these sorts of situatons is just live your life - give yourself time and space away from any sort of relationship - go out with friends. You can't force these sorts of things, they come naturally when your not expecting ... (read in full...)

What can I do to boost my confidence and my ability to talk to her?

Q.   So I have been struggling with this and again I ask for help. Ok I am a 16 year old male and shes a 15 year old female. We have been friends for 3 years. She is a wonderful person, exels in school, everyone knows her, tellented and of course ca...

A.   10 November 2010: Awww I really feel for you - I know exactly how you feel in school there was a guy I REALLY liked but could never talk to. I'd say as she knows you have feelings for her, (I assume she hasn't shown she doesn't like the idea of that), then take her... (read in full...)

He is struggling to keep an erection and now we havent had sex for 2 months, my confidence is at an all time low!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem...

A.   9 November 2010: Hi, yeh I understand where your coming from - but you should really think about what this is doing to his confidence as well as your own. Confronting your bf might only make him feel worse about the situation - more thanlikely it has nothing ... (read in full...)

I've lost interest in sex! Help!

Q.   hey, i got a little problem, im having trouble with my sex life, it seems as if i lost interest, can you please help me!...

A.   5 November 2010: Hi, are you in a relationship that has been going on for soe time? If so than this is normal, I mean it is normal to hit low spots in anyway ssometimes there are so many factors in your life that for the moment it's not one of your priorities. Don't ... (read in full...)

Is the only option I have to leave this relationship? I just cant cope with his child, his ex and the disappointment that I wont be the first to give him a family...

Q.   heya. i am very distraught an confused. i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. he is the type of boy who had slept around.....A LOT! with me he changed an is totally devoted to me, an has never cheated. but about 7 an a half months ago. he ...

A.   5 November 2010: Hi, yeh it sounds like a really difficult situation and I honestly feel for you. But as you have said yourself you are being selfish - it's not you borfriends daughters fault and she deserves everything from her father that you would want your ... (read in full...)

My sister has been reading my personal emails, should I write something mean about her so she can read it?

Q.   So my sister has been reading my emails for a while not sure how long.I emailed my mother she quickly replied and also said i should delete that email because my sister can read them.I cried im hurt i talk with my husband and my friends very ...

A.   2 November 2010: I don't think you should cut her out of your life or write mean things about her - it's not very nice Karma wise - but please talk to your sister and ask her why would she does this? Once you know the motives - and possibly it could be just to ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of everything and just want to hide!

Q.   Not sure anyone can really help me with this, but... For some reason, all of a sudden, I find myself scared of everything. Scared of taking my family on an upcoming trip to Spain. Scared to go to a Halloween party. Scared of who to talk to, what...

A.   2 November 2010: Has anything traumatic happened to you lately - after I was raped - (and this was about 2 years later) - I started to have panic attacks and it sounds like this is what is happening. Luckily I had a partner at the time that was very understanding, I ... (read in full...)

Can a girl have sex during her period?

Q.   Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...

A.   2 November 2010: Short answer is yes - long answer is it depends whether your comfortable to do it or not, if you want to and your both up for it then it's not problem. So if all these things are OK go for it!... (read in full...)

My LDR guy is coming to visit and he wants to have sex with me, but I have no idea how to do it!

Q.   well im from NZ and im having a LDR with a guy from Australia. we've met once when i was in Australia, well he is comeing to visit me in 2 days and he'll be staying in a hotel and he wants to have sex with me. im ready to have sex with him but the ...

A.   27 October 2010: Hi - as long as you WANT to sleep with this guy then go for it. And don't worry about being a virgin - let this guy know the situation and if he's worth giving your virginity too then he will understand. When it comes to the actual act as I said ... (read in full...)

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