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writes:So I have been struggling with this and again I ask for help.Ok I am a 16 year old male and shes a 15 year old female. We have been friends for 3 years. She is a wonderful person, exels in school, everyone knows her, tellented and of course caring. She is the most caring person I know and everyone else knows it too. For the past 3 years I have had feelings for her. as of the past year they have grown so strong but of course im that guy who has never had a girlfriend or even asked someone.Well this school year is finishing. tomorow is my last day and after that I only have 2 years of school. 2 years chance to ask her out. This way seem massive but I havent asked her out in the 3 years, 2 more seems like a short space of time.I really dont know what to do because my confidence is lacking. I struggle with conversations (There are only 2 people plus family that I can talk to well) Whenever im arround I cant think of anything to say. My main form of comunication with her is smilling. what can I do to boost my confidence and my ability to talk to her? I dont want this to go on forever.P.S. Due to good old truth or dare, she knows I have feelings for her but thats it.
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reader, es12  +, writes (10 November 2010):
Awww I really feel for you - I know exactly how you feel in school there was a guy I REALLY liked but could never talk to.
I'd say as she knows you have feelings for her, (I assume she hasn't shown she doesn't like the idea of that), then take her aside and tell her that you really like her. Maybe she's as shy as you and doesn't know how to broach the subject.
As for boosting your confidence then I don't know apart from the fact that you only have 2 years left to air yur feelings, (that's if your lucky and she doesn't get with anyone else in that time), so use that as your confidence booster.
Good Luck xxx
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