Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!
Q. Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We ...
A. 19 May 2010: I would be honest and say that you have done it before and how you felt about it. You do not need to tell him who with, as that is a personal thing that belongs in your past. I think the last thing you would want is to tell him you hadn't done it, ... (read in full...)
I went through my girlfriend's phone for a second time, and I have been hurt yet again....
Q. This may be a little long... but I have a lot to get off my chest. But here I go. The first time I caught her, we were doing a little rocky. We have been falling in and out for a bit over a year now. First started talking back in summer of '08. I...
A. 4 May 2010: I can understand how you are torn at what to do, on the one hand you love her, on the other you just can't trust her and I guess that is confusing.However, I think that you need to be able to trust her for this relationship to work, something which ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that this has hurt my feelings?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Due to a compulsory year abroad as part of my uni course we have been in a long-distance relationship since October. I thought so long about whether I should go or not because I knew I would find ...
A. 17 February 2010: Thanks for all your answers. I definately am going to consider what you've all said about priorities. I mean, we both have lives of our own and both do our own thing. I don't want to be the only thing he devotes himself to, not at all. I even ... (read in full...)
Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our ...
A. 16 December 2009: well it is clear that you really do love this woman so much and perhaps the hurt is even stronger because of that fact. If you truly believe she is sorry, because you know she loves you and won't ever do it again, then perhaps you can go on and try ... (read in full...)
He just doesn't do passion! How can I get him out of his hole?
Q. my fiance has never given me oral and nor has he had an orgasm. This worries me. I always give him oral, he loves it. I've tried to talk to him about it but he changes the subject he also has never given me a passionate kiss, just quick pecks; he ...
A. 21 February 2008: Maybe you should lay off giving him oral for a while and see if he makes any comments or moves, being less passionate may spur him on to wonder what he has to do to rekindle things. Sure enough, you don't give him oral to get it in return but this ... (read in full...)
My girl slept with someone else while we were on a 'break' and I cant get over it
Q. Heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4yrs and I had a break that lasted a month during the summer, during which we saw other people. When we got back together, I asked her if she had slept with anyone, to which she replied no.Recently she told me that ...
A. 16 February 2008: I think it can be quite healthy in a relationship to have a break to see what you want but I'm not so sure about the mutual agreement to see other people.To me, it just seems like a way of moving on without actually breaking up and I don't think you ... (read in full...)
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