Buying a house with my girlfriend, how can I make sure she can't touch the downpayment which my parents donated?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are looking at purchasing our first home together. My parents have graciously offered to give us a down payment. They want the house to be in my name which I understand. What should I do if anything so she can't come and get ...
A. 7 February 2008: If you are not ready to marry this woman, why would you think of buying a house and living with her. Do you not respect her or yourself enough to make a true committment? However, the only way is for her to sign an agreement. If I were her, I ... (read in full...)
Buying a house with my girlfriend, how can I make sure she can't touch the downpayment which my parents donated?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are looking at purchasing our first home together. My parents have graciously offered to give us a down payment. They want the house to be in my name which I understand. What should I do if anything so she can't come and get ...
A. 7 February 2008: You should not live with someone until you are ready for a committment. This way you do not have to worry about things like this. However, she would need to sign an agreement or the house is soley put into your name and not hers and then she can ... (read in full...)
My husband is going to be a father, but I'm not the mother, any advice?
Q. I have been married for 14 yrs. We have 3 children 16,12, and 10. We have and presently have a wonderful friendship, sex life, and he is a wonderful father. He has just told me he had an affair with a lady at work with whom he told he was divorced. ...
A. 7 February 2008: I agree with that. He is getting the best of both worlds. What he did was create an innocent life that now has to life in this turmoil your husband created. What is needed here is some sanity. If he is serious about you and your family he needs ... (read in full...)
Whats going on???
Q. I had a girlfriend for two years, i find out she seeing someone else. I dont scream shout or cause trouble. I back off, reduce contact but remain pleasant. I dont see her for five weeks when i do she breaks down crying saying shes messed it all up. ...
A. 6 February 2008: You need to stay away from people like this. Whatever is going on with her, she doesn't care enough or respect you enough to include you in it. It seems that she uses you when she is feeling low but then when she moves out of that state of mind ... (read in full...)
I am finding it very difficult to get over the break up. Can anyone see a way forward?
Q. My boyfriend of nine months finished the relationship 4 months ago but I am finding it very difficult to get over this. I still find myself crying a lot and unable to sleep at night. At the beginning of the break-up we did communicate by text but ...
A. 6 February 2008: Breaking up with someone you care about is a very hard thing. It doesn't go away over night. Allow yourself to feel that. Cry in your pillow, take walks, feel your pain.. allow yourself the time you need to remember and learn from what ever it ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my ex crush at safe distance from my current relationship?
Q. Hi, i'm 13 and i've got a boyfriend but there this other boy who i used to like but i have forgotten him and i found out he likes me now and he keeps pestering me even though i told him i am with some one and even have kissed my boyfriend in front ...
A. 6 February 2008: You are 13 years old. You should allow yourself to be 13, enjoy the life as a 13 year old and that does not include kissing or boyfriends at this point in your life.
You should be playing sports and having family fun. Being with friends and enjo... (read in full...)
How can I fall out of love with my best friend, to go back to the friendship we had before we started dating?
Q. i fell in love with my best friend, wed know each other for 6 months she was new and we got really close really fast. i finally asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes. we went out for a month and a half. all we did we talk about how we never ...
A. 6 February 2008: The answer is, "You cant" ever go back to the way things were. You either need to completely stop seeing each other if you cant get over the hurt feeling of the love you once felt. Or if you feel you can get past that, start a completely new ... (read in full...)
My partner still flirts online, can I salvage our relationship?
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly a year, I have been cheated on in the past and my now partner keeps really hurting me by flirting online and with most women he meets. I really blew my stack at the weekend, as I logged on to my email, and cl...
A. 6 February 2008: I think you know the answer to your own question. You pick these men for a reason then cry about it when it comes to fruition. It is time to take a step back and free yourself and earn some self respect. He is carrying on because there is nothing ... (read in full...)
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