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writes:Hi, i'm 13 and i've got a boyfriend but there this other boy who i used to like but i have forgotten him and i found out he likes me now and he keeps pestering me even though i told him i am with some one and even have kissed my boyfriend in front of him to make it clear yet he thinks i'm lieing to him,is there any other way i can make it clear to him? any help would be nice
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Thanks for the advise but don't seem to help a lot, the other boy was my ex crush not my ex boyfriend and i am not taking the risk of breaking up with my boyfriend who i have just started going out with and he seems way better then the other one, also my situation does include another story but i havent mentioned it, i did wright about it though its to do with this teacher who was about to sexually assult me, i've gotten slightly over it but still don't like having boys chasing after me like they use to before this teacher issue, and if you have heard the teacher story i wrote to get advise on then you'll understnd why i'm with this bot at the moment, he was basically their all the way through when i needed someone etc...
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reader, mousey17 +, writes (7 February 2008):
 well maybe this other boy of yours who doesnt believe you must rely have it bad for you the only thing you can do is ignore but dont be too forward about all this as i had the same situation a while bk i dated this one boy and he was dare i say the love of my life at the time but then we split up so i moved on as u do but my ex didnt like it and kept sending threatening txt to my new bf and he got seriuosly hurt so i broke up with him n went bk to my ex just so no one wud get hurt but then i realised its my life im young i should be alowd to date who i want but tht is just me but u never no it cud happen im just saying it is a possibilty...but maybe you should tell your current bf tht ur with now u want a break ok fair enough ur 13 but just try it n get bk with ur ex just to see wht all the fuss is about n why he wants u bk so bad u never no u might enjoy it if this does or doesnt work message mexx jus remember ur only young oncexx
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reader, ebi510  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 You are 13 years old. You should allow yourself to be 13, enjoy the life as a 13 year old and that does not include kissing or boyfriends at this point in your life.
You should be playing sports and having family fun. Being with friends and enjoying the freedom of your youth.
Boys and relationships bring so many emotions that at your age your are not equiped yet to deal with. Give yourself time, there is plent of that for you.
Stop seeing all boys in that capacity. Be smart, have respect for yourself and stop allowing boys to touch you in any way. Show them that you respect yourself and them by allowing yourself the freedom to be young and leave the dating issues for the later teen years. Believe me.... You will be devastated if you dont and grow to understand the what you did for your life if you do.
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