He got his ex pregnant - now I'm hurting, jealous and confused. Any advice?
Q. Dear All Please help me my boyfriend made someone pregnant. The pregnant woman is the ex (so he says) and I have only been dating this guy for two months now and this is very difficult for both of us. I have known him for a while before I dated h...
A. 14 December 2006: its time to be tough, grit your teeth and tell him its the end until he has resolved his other issues. The ex may have had promises made and now there is the little one to consider. This guy needs space to arrange his life and not a comfort blanket ... (read in full...)
His ex sent him a card, asking him to e-mail her! What should I do about this?
Q. i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2yrs, this yr (yesterday) he got an xmas card from his ex-wife. He threw it in the bin because he could see it made me uncomfortable. I read the card today day when he went to work, she was asking him to ...
A. 14 December 2006: Show the boyfriend the card, ask if there is anything still between him and his ex. Ask for honesty above all, you can deal with what you know but will continue to imagine all sorts of half baked truths if you try and sweep it under the carpet. An ... (read in full...)
Should I carry on fighting for her or let her go and move on with my life?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been together for 2and a half years. But six months ago i did some thing silly and i had an affair with a girl from work, the only thing is i kept it a secret apart from my friend. About 2 months ago it came out what had ...
A. 14 December 2006: Have a break, and try to get your head into a zone that allows you to treat women the way they would like to be treated, and the way you would like to be treated in return. Sleeping around with other girls and then lying, will no get the response ... (read in full...)
Can a happily married guy really be "just friends" with a single attractive girl?
Q. So I've been married for 6 years, been with my wife 11 years and have never come close to having an affair or even flirt with another woman. Out of nowhere this "girl next door" literally, I can easily see into her bedroom while standing in fron...
A. 14 December 2006: if its not too late already put as much distance as you can between you and this girl. Only pain and hurt can result from this. This early attraction will destroy a marriage that has taken years t develop. Stop the walks now, make excuses to absent ... (read in full...)
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