I can rarely make my girfriend orgasm, she can do it by herself but doesn't let me share in the experience and it makes me feel hurt, rejected and excluded
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I am feeling pretty low in the relationship because of an issue which has been bothering me for nearly a year. I can only make her cum at most about 1x a month and we have an active sex life. She ma...
A. 22 August 2013: Yes I have reposted this but mainly because I don't want to end an otherwise mostly good relationship. I may have put it crudely, but that's still the fact. And I think I've exaggerated the amount that we have sex. She never initiates( even ... (read in full...)
I can rarely make my girfriend orgasm, she can do it by herself but doesn't let me share in the experience and it makes me feel hurt, rejected and excluded
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I am feeling pretty low in the relationship because of an issue which has been bothering me for nearly a year. I can only make her cum at most about 1x a month and we have an active sex life. She ma...
A. 20 August 2013: Thank you for the replies. I want to address from my point of view some of what you say. I don't put her under pressure, I haven't mentioned this issue to her in 5 months and I believe that she is unaware of my anxiety.
Is it really that self... (read in full...)
There's Chemistry. But it's complicated as he owes me money he promised to pay. How do I sort this out? And remain friends?
Q. I'l try keep it short. Theres a guy at college who I met when i started there, it was instant chemistry on both sides, constant flirting etc. We finally went out for dinner a few months later, and we had such an amazing time. we go on so well, ...
A. 10 February 2013: Did you insist on payment of bank transfer or did he? As I guy I would feel ashamed at not being able to have money, but I would be put off at bank transfer instead of getting the next meal/date if that first date was promising. Maybe he is sim... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to give up her sex toys? And consider a real guy like me for sex?
Q. I a year a 25 year old male with a new girlfriend who is 21 years old. We have been going out for about three months. After the first week of dating the subject of sex came up She told me that she had bad sexual experiences with her last boyfrie...
A. 10 February 2013: Maybe you suggest using the toys on her and see where it goes.
Something must have happened badly in her past so trust is crucial... (read in full...)
Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.
Q. So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...
A. 10 February 2013: Absolutely not.
Ever consider he may even be using you to fuel his ego, he wants out the relationship and you are desperate enough to let him do it.
You are 16, you have barely lived. Future boyfriends will not understand if you get it done.... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 7 October 2012: Putting it simply as u say yes I prefer sex more because its a vagina.
I prefer sex to masturbation for 2 reasons. Yes one of them is the fact I'm with someone. Also tho on a physical level in terms of feeling I much prefer it to masturbation. I li... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 7 October 2012: Again maybe being naïve and young about giving her best orgasm. If I need to learn then I'll never be as good I guess I just need time... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 6 October 2012: Cindycares I think I've been too aggresive. I came on this website to get advice on a topic I don't feel comfortable talking about with friends, not attacked for a foolish insecurity I'm starting to think I may have. Maybe I am being young and ... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 6 October 2012: Thanks for everyones input but I still don't know if I can get past it. Without trying to seem arrogant, I've always thought quite good at sex and its almost a blow.
If it is more intense by herself I worry, if assuming we stayed together for anot... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 2 October 2012: Chigirl thanks for your answer it is a case of comparing masturbation but not so simply cos as I said she doesn't use fingers or toys by herself which is basically what I do when we have sex (sub penis for toy)... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 6 September 2012: Ok again thanks for advice. I will try to use fingers more during penetrative. Answering do I masturbate yes I do but not near the amount she does.
I believe for me sex is so much better than masturbation in terms of my pleasure but I feel the... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 5 September 2012: Thanks for ur advice. Another thing is the way she masturbates is by crossing her thighs and squeezing, not necessarily using fingers so its hard to adopt in the bedroom. So I don't see how I could join in other than watching. I know she enjoys oral ... (read in full...)
When I said we should break up I was trying to get his attention, but he took me seriously!
Q. Dear cupid, I m desperate! I ve been with this guy for 3 years,it was a distance relationship and this year i was finally about to move to his country and move in with him!I was searching 4 schools and jobs there,and it was all more difficult c...
A. 5 September 2012: Telling someone who loves you that you want to break up with them can never end well. May be he only agreed as he was shocked and hurt. If a girl did that to me and I loved her, I would be very confused and reasses the relationship even if she ... (read in full...)
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