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I feel that as a human I have feelings too as we all have, I have been down that road I feel that It qualifies me to try to help people in need.I live in brooksville fl.I have feelings for other as much as my self.I have a open heart to another person and would like to help others.married for 17 years and loving it we both work though anything that come up.

Husband warned me it was low but not "zero" low.. ! Is a f*** buddy the answer?

Q.   My husband doesn't want sex, he warned me when we first met he had a low sex drive but I really didn't think he actually meant non-existant! I am suprised I ever managed to concieve our child. I have tried everything sexy undies, romance,...

A.   30 January 2006: I think he needs to think of your feels too.And get some help for his low sex drive there is ways to over come that but has got to want to get help.If he loves you and cares about your feeling he will get help.It's not you all the sexy undies and ... (read in full...)

Should I leave him as he doesn't want sex?

Q.   Me and my husband have been married for one and a half years now, and for the past 3 months he has refused to have sex with me. He is pleasant and cuddles and sleeps in the same bed. But no sex? I am confused and very very sad. Should I leave him? ...

A.   30 January 2006: You need to tell him how you feel! tell him you have needs too and that cuddles and sleeping in the same bed is fine but you need more then that to be happy.The down side is he needs to think of you or find some other place to sleep and maybe ... (read in full...)

Our families are fighting,what can we do?

Q.   Hey. I am in a really bad situation. I am 17 and my bf is 21. I meet him through our family because be were really close friends, but now both our families are fighting and they have put us in the middle. My bf still visits my house and hangs ...

A.   30 January 2006: I think you and your mother and father need to sit down and talk this out. You need to tell them how you feel about him and how this fighting with families is upsetting you. Remember he is of age you are not, if you want to be with him your going to ... (read in full...)

My wife and I had a wild fight on New Year's Eve and ended up in court. Will things ever be the same between us?

Q.   on new years eve i had a wild fight with my wife and we both ended up in court. we have only spoken tywice since and she blames me for everything. Will we get back together ? Or should struggle against the pain and let her go....

A.   21 January 2006: We are not mind readers here,we work with what we have.I don't know what happened why you ended up in court.But if you want her and she wants you you will have to work on geting back together.GOOD LUCK AND HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR BOTH OF YOU. ... (read in full...)

He wanted me then her and both of us, now just her...how do I get over this?

Q.   The guy I was dating told me that he was dating another girl and that he needed time to decide what he wanted to do. Then, he told me that he couldn't be without me but he would still date her. However, he just started avoiding me and finally told ...

A.   21 January 2006: girl this guy is playing with your feeling he can't have his cake and eat it to,I know I have been there and some one get hurt in the end.You need to forget him and find some one that want you for you and only you.If he loved you he would be with ... (read in full...)

Alternative methods of masturbation??

Q.   can someone tell me alternative methods of mastrobation. i am sick and tired of the conventional method!...

A.   21 January 2006: I think you need to find you a women for alternative methods of pleasing your self.Self mastrobation is fine if you can't or don't want a female in your life.Get your self some toys that remind you of a female body parts then work up to the real ... (read in full...)

The man my parents chose to be my husband won't show any respect to them!

Q.   Dear Cupid I had an arranged marriage. I got married about 4 years ago. We have been living together for 2.5 years since he was in school when we got married. My problem is hurting me. My husband does not like my parents. My parents gave us...

A.   21 January 2006: I'm sorry but you need to open up and tell your family what is going on you don't need to live that way.My parents chose him to be my husband I never understand that way of life any way.You don't let your parents pick husband or wife.You never know ... (read in full...)

Hubby's not attracted to me, and he's not shy about telling me what I lack!

Q.   My husband doesn't find me phyically attractive but says hes attracted to me because of the person I am and that he loves me. Should I not worry about this? I have done evrything I can think of to be attractive to him but he prefers a woman in her ...

A.   21 January 2006: You have a right to be up set with him he is not the man you married.He is not even a real man a real man does not judge a women by the way she looks or how she acts or how she lives.A real man if he is a man never tells a women what she lacks to ... (read in full...)

My GF likes to give -- but not receive -- oral. I just want to please her like she does me!

Q.   My girlfriend who I've been with for six months acts a little strange about oral sex. She has no problem giving it to me, but she won't let me go down on her. She says it's just nasty. I would like to be able to please her the way she does me. What ...

A.   21 January 2006: If your girlfriend wants to give then receive don't knock it some girls like to receive and not give.She maybe pleasing you but it may please her to please you.You don't have to please her that way as luck man said find other ways that please her ... (read in full...)

He cheated and we worked through it. Then I cheated too and my husband walked out!

Q.   I really need your advice. My life is such a mess. I'm married to the man of my dreams but we have been seperated for about two months. The seperation was hard for me to take and still is, to the extent where I tried to take my own life. I even saw ...

A.   21 January 2006: Two rights don't make a wrong!whats wrong with this picture?He cheated you took him back but when you cheated he walked out on you and the kids. What its ok for him but not for you.You need to remind him that you took him back when he cheated on ... (read in full...)

My ultimatum: get your own place or it's over. Am I being unfair?

Q.   My partner still lives at home with his mum and dad. He declares that he loves me and treats me well but I find it hard to stay at his house because his mum complains of us talking late. I suggest he gets his own place but he explains that he needs...

A.   20 January 2006: I moved out of my mother's house when I was 16 years old and got my own place.saving money is fine but living with your mother and father is not cool you need to make your own way in the world.He needs to find a place for both of you and get out of ... (read in full...)

Can I trust my partner with his ex wife??

Q.   My partner of 4.5 years is still in contact with his ex-wife. He has 3 children over 25 non of them are married. They all speak and go out regularly. His ex-wife does everything she can to interfer in our relationship? Can I trust him? I know ...

A.   20 January 2006: If he loves you and only wants to be with you then he will see his x- wife as his best friend.Watch how he acts around you after being with his x-wife.Watch for signs of the old not to night dear my head hurts,or i have had a bad day.it maybe ... (read in full...)

Do we ever stop masturbating? If so, when?

Q.   i wasn't sure or not but is their a certain time u stop masturbating?...

A.   20 January 2006: Do we ever stop masturbating thats like asking do i have to stop having sex! masturbating is part of life. masturbating is release of sexual feeling with in you.If it feels good do it!There is no certain time u stop masturbating!If you injoy the ... (read in full...)

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