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My boyfriend makes me cry every day

Q.   My boyfriend When he gets mad he says mean things to hurt my feelings -your a bitch/whore/loser/pathetic Gets madder, and makes fun of me and acts like a complete jerk when I'm crying over him Wont listen to me when I tell him that I nee...

A.   6 January 2011: Emotional Abuser but worse! Kick his ass to the curb and do NOT think about him again. You sound sweet, I hope you find another guy. Seriously kick his ass out.... (read in full...)

Sex: I tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene

Q.   I'm basically just curious I’ve only slept with a few people and tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene... I guess. It's just a few general questions about sex and what other people think. You don’t have to answer them all, ...

A.   6 January 2011: First off, nothing in your questions is 'out of bounds' or abnormal. Secondly, is it that you are being 'forced' or is it that you just don't know the SoP (standard operation procedure)? You may feel as if you are doing something unnatura... (read in full...)

Will I ever be accepting of his porn usage?

Q.   First of all, I don’t want answers to my post or comments on it from people who are totally against porn. I am not against it, I am just asking for advice and I don’t want advice that I absolutely will not take. I mean no offense, but I see it on ...

A.   6 January 2011: You feel threatened by porn. It's Ok. Really. He may feel threatened by your large dildo or vibrator or whatever. It's Ok. Really. The 'threatened' response is rooted in your love and desire for him. This is a good sign (yay! you love him) bu... (read in full...)

How can I prove to my wife that I'm not cheating on her?

Q.   my wife and i are having jealousy issues she thinks iget up in the middle of the night and go to a woman but i dont. we split up and we are talking and see each other every day but she has rented an apartment and wont tell me where it is we have had ...

A.   6 January 2011: Not to be insensitive but if you don't have kids... let the crazy go. Sounds like undiagnosed mental condition or she's actually the one cheating. YMMV... (read in full...)

Will a woman be truly satisfied with an average guy if she has had large lovers in the past?

Q.   If a woman has had very large lovers in her past , can she really be truly satisfied with an average sized man later in life? ...

A.   6 January 2011: And the correct answer is... "Yes". If you are still concerned about pleasuring her with a large size, buy a dildo for her. Have fun using it on her. Trust me she will never love, like or anything else a dildo over the real thing. Dildos are not ... (read in full...)

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