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I don't want to lose my virginity yet-His persistance scared me so much I thought he was going to rape me!

Q.   I had been dating my boyfriend for 7 months im a virgin and he is not. I have done stuff with him eg oral and jerked him off but not sex. He is getting bored. He says he wants to be inside me and cum inside me and stuff but i dont really want to. ...

A.   27 April 2008: with him being older he is going to want sex..its just natural at that age and unfortunately by the sounds of it he cant control it and so you shouldnt put up with it....tell him if he ever tries to do it again you will leave him...and tell him that ... (read in full...)

Should I become a meaner person... or louder and outspoken just to be loved??

Q.   So i am the sweetest person anyone can meet..evryone who i have ever encountered tells me that i am nice and i am really kindhearted. I am willing to be devoted to someone, care about them and be faithful...so i dnt understand why guys wont make me ...

A.   27 April 2008: theres no need to change who you are. I changed myself for my boyfriend but i changed in a way that brought out the femnine side to myself. Its true that u might scare some guys off with the long term interest that u seem to have whether u mean to ... (read in full...)

Last night me and my boyfriend had an argument, it was over something silly-do I beg him not to leave me now?

Q.   Last night me and my boyfriend had an argument, it was over something silly but it went from something little to big. He said he felt trapped and im always on his case, ive said im sorry so many time and how i need him and truely love him, im begin...

A.   27 April 2008: yeah give him a bit of space. chasing him and continually telling him you love him will not help...i know its hard to do because your horrified he is going to leave but just give him a 3 days or so and then just talk to him and ask him how he feels. ... (read in full...)

Why does the fact that I have big boobs make guys assume they can treat me like a slut?

Q.   Hi Im 16 and am a 5"3 size 8-10, very curvy, G chested female. I have always hated my figure so thats nothing new, but recently I've felt particularly shite because everytime I go out to enjoy myself around people my own age, for instance at part...

A.   27 April 2008: maybe you should consider the TYPE of clothes you dress with. just because its not a short skirt or showing cleavage there are some clothes that stereotype a slut. Consider: do you wear tight jeans? do you wear tight tops? look around at people yo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend stopped caring... what is left to do?

Q.   My Boyfriend Has Stopped Caring. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months we were happy to start with, got engaged and everythin, now everythings changed. he wants more time alone and when i decide to go out on the town with my mATEs he hates i...

A.   27 April 2008: yes. my girlfriend started acting the same way because she found a few texts from my female friends refering to me as honey and baby, and some from me going out to them calling them babe. what she didnt realise is that i wasnt doing anything w... (read in full...)

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