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30-35,
*mmaxbaby
writes:Last night me and my boyfriend had an argument, it was over something silly but it went from something little to big. He said he felt trapped and im always on his case, ive said im sorry so many time and how i need him and truely love him, im beging him not to leave me, i need him so much. He said he needs time to think and im giving him the time, what can i do to show that i love him and need him? i said id change and be better if he gives me another chance, i really dont know what to say to him, what can i do?
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reader, deviant81  +, writes (27 April 2008):
yeah give him a bit of space. chasing him and continually telling him you love him will not help...i know its hard to do because your horrified he is going to leave but just give him a 3 days or so and then just talk to him and ask him how he feels. he may realise that he misses you and didnt realise what he almost lost..
dont completely stop talking to him thought, remind him your still there..just ask him how his day was or watever normal talk u guys used to have..he should come through if it was just over nothing.
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reader, gayuncleandy  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Hey sister! He needs time and if he is anything like me he will enjoy a couple of days off. Let it be. He wants to think and to have a rest. Don't worry, things will be better after he feels better. It is like this in all relationships!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 If you have apologized, there is no more you can do.
It appears that you love him more than he loves you.
Don't beg him or appear to be clingy , it will turn him off.
Just take a time out and after a few days , the situation will not be the same .
Cooler heads may prevail.
If he still loves you , he will come back for you .
If he does not , be prepared to move on ..
If you chase him , he will instinctively withdraw from you.
You need to pull back and he would probably come for you,
that is if he still wants you.
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