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Did my friends just get tired of me?

Q.   Has anybody here been through a situation where you've lost your friends or your friends have turned on you and aren't your friends anymore? Over the last couple of months all of my friends started hanging out with another group of people and I ...

A.   9 May 2013: Everyone hates this feeling, and it happens more often than you would think, especially among us younger folks. It sounds like they formed a clique, and don't want you to be a part of it. You can try to join them, you may even succeed, but it i... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   2 May 2013: -zippy78 Well I took your advice to heart. I approached a girl I thought was pretty for the first time yesterday. I chatted a little with her. It was a little awkward, but it could have been worse. I complimented her, and she smiled. I didn't a... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   1 May 2013: -zippy78 Are you related to me? Because damn, I am a younger version of you. I am forever hoping that a nice girl will start up a conversation with me. I am scared of trying. I will think "today's the day I chat with the girl at the cafeteria" o... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   30 April 2013: -Tisha1 "You are spending too much time alone and online. You are living in your head, not in the real world." I have heard this before, and have been changing my behavior. I spend most weekends shopping at the mall, hiking, or driving around ... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   29 April 2013: - Tisha-1 I've lived outside of CA for the past few years and only recently moved back. I don't have Facebook. I lost contact with many of my friends, and I don't live near enough to any of the ones I still know to hang out very often. I've bee... (read in full...)

Creepy leery guys ask for my number. Yet NEVER do any of the 'normal' guys, who I see looking, actually approach me. What am I doing wrong?

Q.   I'm a 19 year old female, single and have never had a boyfriend before. This alone worries me a little since literally everyone I know has had/ is in a relationship. Without sounding conceited, etc. I would consider myself attractive. I not...

A.   28 April 2013: Have you considered making the first move? I personally am very timid around women that are attractive and don't want to bother them by being forward, and I know I'm not the only one. If they don't go to you, find someone you find attractive and ... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   28 April 2013: -zippy78 Wow you went through the exact same thing as I am going through, thank you for sharing. -CindyCares My fear is much deeper-rooted than just performance anxiety, I'm afraid. I'm timid to the point that I won't even approach women I find... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   27 April 2013: -YouWish Yes, I'm mostly concerned about performance. It scares the living daylights out of me. While I also tend to consider it a immoral to have premarital sex, I don't consider a woman soiled for making that choice. It is hers to make, af... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   27 April 2013: -aresu: Your analogy using tennis is exactly what I've been worried about. Other people in this thread have said that I'm just insecure about my performance...Duh! How can I be secure about something I haven't done? I would much rather have the ... (read in full...)

I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?

Q.   I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...

A.   25 April 2013: zippy78-Thanks, that helps. "I do think your being unrealistic to think that single girls should have said no to all the other men they have had an attraction or relationship with, but that its okay for them to take your virginity and yo... (read in full...)

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

Q.   My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to tak...

A.   25 April 2013: The vast majority of all divorces are money related issues. You aren't alone. Often times one spouse is frugal and the other isn't. Unfortunately, even if you both get good jobs and work, this will always be an issue unless he changes his behavior... (read in full...)

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