How do I deal with built up hatred for my ex? He just went missing when I told him I was pregnant and he never cared to check on me until months later
Q. It has been about 4 years since I had an abortion. I had gotten pregnant by my ex. I had also gotten sick around the time I was pregnant. I had to make a choice to have surgery for my illness and lose the baby..or stay sick and keep it..I ...
A. 18 February 2012: Thank you all...your resplies were so very helpful..I have contemplated getting professional help for a while but haven't actually did it yet..but 4 years later and I'm not getting better..I think it's time.. I am not going to seek closure because I ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with built up hatred for my ex? He just went missing when I told him I was pregnant and he never cared to check on me until months later
Q. It has been about 4 years since I had an abortion. I had gotten pregnant by my ex. I had also gotten sick around the time I was pregnant. I had to make a choice to have surgery for my illness and lose the baby..or stay sick and keep it..I ...
A. 17 February 2012: Thank you so much abella ...r u right..I am going to close that part of my life forever and not look back...and u gave some very good ways and hobbies to use to try to get over the situation..I will consider them because right now I'm trying to move ... (read in full...)
I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?
Q. This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I ...
A. 25 December 2008: I really appreciate all of the diffrent opinions...majority rules I should not tell him in which that is the route I will take...if he wanted to know he would make an attempt to find out. my house nor cell phone number has changed...Thanx again ... (read in full...)
I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?
Q. This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I ...
A. 24 December 2008: I appreciate all of you all opinions...I really liked response #3, because thats exactly how i feel about the situation,obviously he doesnt care...I know abortions are horrible, but in some situations I think there are exceptions...I wish it was a ... (read in full...)
My low self esteem won't let me and my new guy be happy together.
Q. I have this new guy in my life that I love very much, But I have this problem... my self confidence is not where it needs to be. Therefore in the past I have been known to sabotage any potiential realtionships because of my fear of the person not ...
A. 23 December 2008: Thankyou for your responses...they have helped alot..you both made so much sense...I will try to get over this and try to make the best of our relationship..I thankyou again :)... (read in full...)
How is it cheating if we're not 'official'?
Q. I am talking to this new guy, we are not official nor are we really exclusive, he still talks to she friend girls as I do my guy friends...however we spend most of our time talking to each other, we love each other, but in october I had sex with my ...
A. 23 December 2008: i appreciate your answer...i think when i wrote this I should have been a little bit more specific about me and the new guys relationship because I actually met him online(myspace)..we have seen each other only once, I have never had any sexual ... (read in full...)
How is it cheating if we're not 'official'?
Q. I am talking to this new guy, we are not official nor are we really exclusive, he still talks to she friend girls as I do my guy friends...however we spend most of our time talking to each other, we love each other, but in october I had sex with my ...
A. 23 December 2008: Thankyou for you response...it helped alot...just like you said I feel the same way that Im lucky he even still speaks to me...because I know that if the tables was turned I dont know if I could deal with it, everytime he brings it up when we fight ... (read in full...)
Will I just be his 'token' black girl?
Q. There is a new guy I am talking to, he makes me so happy, he claims to love me and I know that I love him also. The only problem with him is that he is sort of racist...prior to me he has always been into spanish women or women of mixed race..he ...
A. 23 December 2008: Thankyou for your response...you don't know how much you have helped...you just helped confirm what I thought, the part at the end where you said "because by him being like that turned me off and just made me want to find someone who likes me" ... (read in full...)
I am having dreams that something bad is going to happen to my ex bf! Should I call him up?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend of 10 months left off on bad terms, and now lately I have been having dreams that something bad is going to happen,like he is going to be killed and I just want to call him up and make peace because I would hate for the next ...
A. 20 March 2007: thanx 2 your reply's...I didn't actually call my ex...I called his best friend and drilled him with a few questions to see how my ex was doing...and then just the other day my ex called me and gave me his new cell number. so again thanx for your ... (read in full...)
The only time he calls is to ask me to come over and have sex. Is he just using me?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10months now,when I met him I was a virgin, I held out in our relationship for about 5 months Before we had sex. In the beginning the relationship was going great we got along and spent time together almost ...
A. 12 February 2007: thank you everyone for your responses....I kinda of already knew you all would say he was using me in which I know yall are 100% correct....you know sometimes you know something you just wanna hear other peoples view on it. I mean I always thought ... (read in full...)
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