How can I learn to really stand up for myself?
Q. I often let people run over me and talk to me any kind of way. Especially ones that are not my family. It's like my mind goes blank and I don't know what to say. It's like my mind runs scared. But I get disrespected to the point to where I want ...
A. 26 September 2015: I was very shy and soft spoken for a while... but I started to be slightly assertive by making good points and suggestions. I didnt want to be angry or mean. I just wanted to stick up for myself fairly. You need to choose your words carefully and ... (read in full...)
I know that we are amazing friends but my question is, is it possible to have a 'bond' with a guy friend?
Q. Hi, so I'm currently studying for a degree and have a close group of friends made up of three girls and one guy. Myself and the guy are close friends and when I went through a breakup of a very long relationship he was an amazing friend to me and ...
A. 26 September 2015: I actually have the same situation. Me and my male friend do talk on phone and even go to movies together. He is important to me.... And naturally based on how greatly we get along ; I wonder if we should just be together.. now in your case I would ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from sharing cropped nude pictures of my girlfriend online with other guys? It gives me a thrill even though it's wrong
Q. Hi friends.. I have been Sharing nude pictures of my girlfriend but before that cropping the head of the picture and then share with other guys on an anonymous social networking website it turns me on when i share it.. I then wank over it.. Im ...
A. 26 September 2015: You need to stop it... sending her pictures like that without her permission is a disgrace ... if you truly love her stop ... you can't possibly respect her and do this... I also urge you to tell her what you did...who knows she May even like the ... (read in full...)
Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...
A. 25 August 2015: Please don't be that hard on yourself.. from now on either dont drink or drink only with your boyfriend.... please forgive yourself. It is in the past.. and I understand what you are feeling, but please focus on the love for your boyfriend and focus ... (read in full...)
I feel I really don't deserve my partner.
Q. I feel I really dont deserve my partner. I have been with him six years, and I have treated him appallingly. I have anger issues and hormone problems and he has bore the brunt of it for years. I have been so jealous and possessive, how he stuck it ...
A. 25 August 2015: Please dont be so hard on yourself... he forgave you ; please forgive yourself.. make it up to him with a lifetime of love and kindness and thoughtfulness.... hey ! .. you love him and everything will be okay.. relationships have ups and downs... ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with ruling someone out if you don't feel instant chemistry?
Q. I met a genuinely nice guy on an online dating site and we've gone on two dates. I had to psyche myself up for both of these dates because a) I haven't been on a date in a while and b) I didn't feel any attraction when I looked at his profile ...
A. 25 August 2015: Hi.. I thought deeply about this and I think you should go on a few more dates and try to just enjoy yourself with no pressure... if you feel no "spark".. consider remaining friends with him because he sounds like a good person and you can hopefully ... (read in full...)
Why did my girlfriend suddenly decide she won't have sex till we get married?
Q. We have been dating for over a year now, things have been going on well between the both of us. As usual she is ready to have sex anytime I ask for it Suddenly things changed! My gentle and caring girlfriend suddenly changed to someo...
A. 25 August 2015: My first thought when I read your story is.. she may more than likely want a commitment before she continues being sexual with you.. she dropped the marriage word and she is hinting at wanting to be married and becoming a wife.. if I were you buy a ... (read in full...)
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