He asked and asked me so many times for pictures of me. Finally I sent one. I feel so scared that I did this. What should I do?
Q. So I'm 13. One day my best guy friend asked for pictures of me in a sports bra. Well I told him no and he asked and asked and kept asking. I've took pictures like that before (Not sexual) making sure not to show anything. Well It was 2:30 am and ...
A. 23 July 2017: Hi, I've recently had my 14th birthday, but when I was 13, I had a similar experience. To cut a long story short, met a guy on holiday, thought he was perfect, exchanged numbers, he kept asking for pics. I kept saying no but he kept asking. ... (read in full...)
I cannot keep on ignoring him. He keeps on asking me to his, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am only 14 but have a boyfriend I think he is super sweet and super cute but he is always asking me round to his. I always decline because I am too nervous because he seems to eager to move on with our relationship but all we have ...
A. 21 May 2017: If you're not ready, DO NOT go round to his house. Just straight up tell him: "No, I'm not ready". If he cares, he'll wait. If he looks put out or tries to pressure you some more, leave him. He's not worth it. I know you like him, but you need to ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my coach likes me and what do I do?
Q. I think my coach likes me but i dont know? So basically ive known the lad for half a year its got to the point where i think he likes me.I was training and he turned up.when it came to a couple of months later,i started to notice he was ...
A. 15 May 2017: Girl, no. Sorry for the rudeness, but this isn't happening. You're young, so you're new to the whole dating scene, but surely you know that this cant happen?
How old is he? Because if he's 18+ then that is creepy and you need to tell someone.... (read in full...)
On/off holiday friendship
Q. I met this guy on holiday. We got along really well and I thought he was, well, perfect. Then he had to move away and stuff cause his holiday ended. We exchanged phone numbers and we were texting for a while. After a couple of weeks of texting he ...
A. 15 May 2017: Thank you to all your replies. I took this advice to heart, and it is really great advice. He started messaging me again without a word of reason as to why he's back. And I discovered something. He's not this perfect guy he led me to believe he was. ... (read in full...)
Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?
Q. Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...
A. 3 May 2017: Although I have never been in this situation specifically, I do know what it's like to fall for someone else while you're dating someone. It's especially hard when your partner has fallen for you, hard, but you don't feel the same way. My advice... (read in full...)
Is this guy I met online showing serious red flags?
Q. I joined an online dating app two weeks ago haha, put a few pics of myself up and filled up my bio which tbf was pretty detailed. Anyway I got a message out of the blue from this guy, not unusual ofc, but he lived like 5 hrs away (on the other si...
A. 28 April 2017: Hmm. With app dating, you have to be very careful that its not a catfish. I wouldn't recommend meeting him or even continuing this relationship.
He's into BDSM, which you aren't, so I don't think you two will work in the bedroom even if he is ev... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my rude and bossy co-workers? 2
Q. I am in a sticky situation. I've been at my job for a little over 6 months. I think I'm rather a good workers and me and the managers hit it off well. The problem I'm having is with some of my co workers. I know it sounds juvenile but there ar...
A. 26 April 2017: Just continue ignoring them and don't let it get to you. They're being childish and they're not worth your time.
But, if you want, anytime they ask you to do something and they do so bossily, pretend you haven't heard. If they cant use manners,... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?
Q. hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...
A. 26 April 2017: Don't. He's into you, but also other girls. He might not want to hurt you, but he doesn't only have eyes for you so he's not gonna give up chances to flirt.
I would recommend not kissing him. Also don't be alone with him. If you're alone, i... (read in full...)
Do you think a relationship can form out of our FWB situation?
Q. Hi Im in a fwb setup with a friend for the past one year.he ended the setup twice in this year for a couple of months and now it started again. Recently he had brought up the topic of where i saw myself 5 years from now..been cuddling after th...
A. 20 April 2017: I'm sorry but I don't see a relationship. He's very clearly told you he doesn't want a relationship. Move on, girl. ... (read in full...)
How do I speak to a co-worker about an incident that caused much drama at work?
Q. Great site....level headed advice. I work in a high school in a pretty volatile classroom. I am slated to work in two schools and about two months ago now some drama broke out in one of the sites when I was at the other one. The situation did no...
A. 20 April 2017: So she's mad at you because you're not mad at them? Yea, that's common. She wants to feel like you're 100% on her side but she needs to understand that you have to work with them and you want peace around the office.
I think you should have an ... (read in full...)
Why do girls do things that make them unapproachable and rude?
Q. Why do girls always have to be glued to each other or have their noses in their phones or in a book? Don't they realize that makes them unapproachable and that it's just plain rude? Also, they do the same things on dates too and act rudely just to ...
A. 20 April 2017: I don't think you can judge all girls based off of a couple of bad experiences. Some girls are just closed off. I'm one of them. Sometimes we want a guy to talk to us but we're terrified of making the first move.
But why are they calling you out ... (read in full...)
Should I ask out my instructor?
Q. Should I ask out my instructor after I graduate? I really like one of my lecturers, he is really cute and nice, and obviously very smart. I've gone to his office a few times, and during one of my visits he scooted his chair over really close to ...
A. 19 April 2017: Okay, so, you have to be level-headed about this. Answer these questions:
1. How old is he? Is he much older than you?
2. Is he married? In a relationship? Kids?
If you don't know the answer to these questions, then I suggest moving on. Hot teac... (read in full...)
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