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... Send *oprolite a private message | | | *oprolite's profile:I'm fascinated by the nature of reasoning. Everyone of course tends to think they understand what the hell they're talking about. But the fact is that we're generally pretty sloppy thinkers. We take our opinions for granted, and take our assumptions for facts. And the beauty of a website like this is that we have so little information to go on. It's like reading tea-leaves. As a social experiment, I'm curious to give it a go.
I'm a certified 6-12 teacher in the midwest who currently works with computers. I'm 30 years old and single. I am also a musician, gamer, and an avid blogger. |
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Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me?
Q. Why would a woman feel the need to gush about what an amazing man I am rather than just tell me straight that she doesn't want me? Telling me that she would be happier with me but she can't leave her current relationship is what is really stopping ...
A. 12 June 2007: Sounds like she wants it all. She wants to have her relationship, and then string another potential relationship along in the background just in case. If she really thinks you are an amazing person who she'd be happier with, then maybe she should ... (read in full...)
I'm 30 years old and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. I'm 30 years old but still a virgin. Is this normal? Ive never had a girlfriend. I'm not ugly just very shy. Its more out of circumstance than not been "lucky" ie i work weekdays and look after my gran on the weekend. Will i ever get...
A. 12 June 2007: A 30 year old virgin is probably on the rare side these days, particularly if you don't have any obvious problems, social or physical. But what matters more is how you feel about yourself. If you recognize that between work, gran, and being shy ... (read in full...)
I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too.
Q. I met this girl about 4 months ago and got to know her really well, and decided to ask her out. Unfortunately for me, I didn't know somebody else did, too. She came clean with me though, and told me how she really didn't like this other guy, but ...
A. 12 June 2007: It sounds like this girl probably has some deep emotional issues, which I seriously doubt that you (and certainly not her) fully understand. Your desire to help her is admirable, but you can't fix her. You should have no illusions about this. You ... (read in full...)
I cannot leave the military... It's the way of my life but I dont want to lose her either..
Q. I'm in the military and I've been to Iraq twice now and am being sent for the 3rd time. This has taken a great toll on my relationship with my girlfriend. I love her to bits and couldn't have imagined doing my time in Iraq without a picture of her...
A. 12 June 2007: Your situation is really unfortunate. Military life has put stresses on so many relationships.
Your deployments have apparently been very difficult for her. She has no control over your safety, and that powerlessness can be deeply emotiona... (read in full...)
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