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Break up with my boyfriend and give this friend a chance?

Q.   I know it's wrong but I force myself not to believe it. I slept with a guy that I really like and he really likes me also. We talk every day for hours on end, we always hangout and we both love spending time with each other. He even calls me on his ...

A.   18 November 2008: Um well it sounds like you both need to figure out how to get rid of your significant others. I have been in this situation and it never works out with the one you are in the relationship and most of the time the guy you cheat with too. Because no ... (read in full...)

He's got a GF and resisting my offers to meet up. Is he just messing with me?

Q.   What is up? Ok - I'm a good looking older woman with a good figure and personality! - I have recently got involved with a younger guy who I would do ANYTHING for and he knows I really like him (but unfortunately he has a girlfriend who he says ...

A.   18 November 2008: Okay well I have several ways I could answer but I try to explain it the best I can in one way with out going all moral. Ask yourself this :Do you want a guy who takes it that easily? what if you fall for this guy since you are already feeling like ... (read in full...)

Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?

Q.   Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship tha...

A.   17 November 2008: I agree with what you are saying FADE and I have asked all these questions too. And he simply says it just happens and that he will never act on it or even take it to the step of planning or plotting because he knows he is not meant to be with her. ... (read in full...)

Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?

Q.   Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship tha...

A.   17 November 2008: So It doesn't matter how good looking and great your girl is to you. You guys will always wonder about girls naked including women that are close to you? No matter how sexually satisfied you are? So there is pretty much nothing a girl can do if she ... (read in full...)

Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?

Q.   Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship tha...

A.   17 November 2008: Uncle Phil you respond as if I have totally offended you and I'm not sure why. I'm not knocking the urges men have but some I think leads to infidelity ot at the very least lack of respect. ... (read in full...)

Do all men picture women they fancy naked in their minds eye?

Q.   Okay so here is something I have come across that I'm quite perplexed about. My ex claims that all men picture women naked at the least the one's that are attractive anyway. What happens when it's a co-worker? and the guy is in a relationship tha...

A.   17 November 2008: Okay so let me ask another question Can guys control it? I know everyone keeps saying "Men are different" and don't get me wrong you guys are different in many ways and I don't take that away from the male persuasion but I know myself I don't ... (read in full...)

Was I right in dumping him?

Q.   I am a 20 year old female. I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. We were friends for around a year before that. During the course of our friendship I came to get to know both the good and bad sides of his personality. We worked on a few ...

A.   17 November 2008: Well as I'm reading what you have written I'm getting the impression that he is insecure with many things and uses his intellect as a barrier. It's the only thing he seems to feel confident about and when you try to give him suggestions and help it ... (read in full...)

He looking up ex girlfriends on facebook on google

Q.   Okay so I have been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years and man has it been rocky. The main problem with our past is his past relationships or fool arounds they have not gotten out of the picture part to his fault and part to the individuals who have ...

A.   11 November 2008: Thanks guys for all your advice sometimes it's just easier to write it out. I have known for quite a while that this one should be let go I guess I just had hope because of his actions in front of me and with his family but no more will I be ... (read in full...)

I need Help badly!

Q.   I am girl of 26, I have started having feelings for my friend more than as a friend. We spent nights together, now I feel that I want him truly. But he only feels for me as a friend, nothing more. We have been friends for 4 years but we met recently ...

A.   11 November 2008: You will always be yearning for more from him and if he only he doesn't have those feelings for you. You can't make him or even persuade him I mean let's face it he is a guy so maybe some intimate time together might happen but in his mind it is ... (read in full...)

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