I'm still obsessed,with my first love
Q. I have a strange secret. After 30 years, I'm still obsessed,with my first love.I know,it's sick, I have a nice family, and loving husband, great children, and I have a good life.I'm very wrong to feel,what I feel, but that is why I write here, as ...
A. 21 May 2009: Sometime back one of my friend had the same story, atleast you moved on in life with kids etc..but she couldnt. She kept talking about her first love always and couldnt concentrate much on her husband. She was repeating the same your words and ... (read in full...)
17 years and counting? Help!
Q. I am a 30 year old mom of two children ages 13 and 8. I started my relationship with their dad at the age of 14. Over the past 17 years a lot has unfolded.. Really bad times... Really good times. I try to sum it up to we were kids and had a lot of ...
A. 20 May 2009: After seeing all ups and downs, make ups and break ups, I think he is afraid of a commited relationship. Talk to him that you are no more 14 and has grown up a lot and could handle things. Make him understand that you want him in your life for the ... (read in full...)
My affair ended and my husband forgave me....but the guy I cheated with wont leave me alone!
Q. Ok, this is my story I have been working for a great company for 2 years now have a wonderful marriage well lets say we have our ups and downs but who doesnt. I started training this man that came to work in my department, well I started flirting he ...
A. 20 May 2009: Changing the mobile number and telling your husband about his threat would help, but as you both are working in the same department, if it would be easy for him to find your new mobile number too and you feel like you dont want your husband to see ... (read in full...)
Why can I not let go?
Q. Hello, i have been in a relationship for almost two years with someone who has cheated on me once, and planned on meeting another from the internet. I have been told by friends that I more of less gave him the green card to cheat because I did no...
A. 19 May 2009: Considering that he is not taking any step to gain your trust and as you yourself are saying it is not the best thing to be with him and you dont trust him, get out of the relationship that is troubling you. For that first you need to stop thinking ... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe I was a virgin because I didn't bleed!
Q. Hi i am engaged and he took my virginity. i didnt bleed so now he thinks i wasnt a virgin and is getting upset. i think i tore it while stretchin one time and now what should i say/do? please? ...
A. 19 May 2009: Ask him to read some sex education sites and make him understand that girls hymen could have broken due to lot of reasons and not all the virgins bleed. ... (read in full...)
Recently married and wondering if it was a big mistake
Q. Hello all, please please can anyone advise me on this. My husband and i have been together for about 5 and half years. we got married about 6 months ago. And to be honest i just think i have made a huge mistake. The months leading up to the...
A. 19 May 2009: Dont let this situation continue in your life. I think he is taking advanatage that you wont leave him whatever he does. Next time if he says he has given you everything, tell him that he hasn't given you what he is supposed to give ... (read in full...)
My daughter has given me permission to sleep with her friend and I'm torn over what I should do!
Q. I'm a single Dad with a 17 year old daughter. She has a friend that's 18. She's been coming around for about 5 or 6 yrs. I have a big house. She's had a room here for about 4 yrs and is here more than anywhere else.(No father around and Mom don't ...
A. 19 May 2009: Dont do that and tell your daughter that you too have boundaries.... (read in full...)
Confused, heartbroken and wondering if I should fight or walk away?
Q. For the first time in my life at age 41, I fell in love with wonderful woman. I have/had an attachment disorder and through months of couselling a few years ago, I learned how to connect my heart and head as one. I met this woman and we fell in l...
A. 19 May 2009: You need to still show her same love and support as you did before. Dont get tensed and dont let your activities show her any difference and be supportive for her. She is the person who has to take the decision here. But try to prepare yourself to ... (read in full...)
I keep finding myself trusting the wrong people...
Q. I have always had trust issues and i keep finding myself trusting the wrong people. When my boyfriend had cheated on me before with one my friends, it became even harder. It's been a long time now and we are back together, but my trust is not ...
A. 19 May 2009: Everbody deserves a second chance. As your boy friends says that he loves you and to trust him, give him a chance and dont throw it on his face. But internally dont keep your trust on him totally so that you wont be broken if cheats again on you. ... (read in full...)
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