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I feel unloved and unwanted in this marriage

Q.   I love my husband of 10 years but for the past 6 months he has become totally disconnected from me. I am 47 and my husband is 49. We have no children. My 85 year old mom lives with us in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apt. We haven't had sex in ...

A.   21 July 2013: Thanks for the responses - Intrigued3000 and Sageoldguy1465. I really appreciate the feedback. ... (read in full...)

Is he being selfish for repeatedly bringing up the fact I cant have kids?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 13 years. He has 3 kids by 3 different women - 2 of these children were born when he had just graduated from high school. the other child was born 2 years before I met him. He and I tried having a child but we ...

A.   27 May 2012: This is the husband. My wife never tells the full story. To begin with, She has 3 other living blood siblings. ... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't like my mom living with us and she can't live alone

Q.   My 84 year old mom has lived with my husband and I for the last 22 months - my husband had agreed for her to move in but now he has a change of mind. The only time my husband ever speaks to my mom is when he bids her the time of day. He doesn't ...

A.   24 April 2012: Thanks to everyone for the feedback and support. @ traeumerin242 - you share basically the same views that I do. I agree w/ you in being honest w/ my mom, but I know her to well - she is way too sensitive and it would realy break her heart an... (read in full...)

Is he being selfish for repeatedly bringing up the fact I cant have kids?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 13 years. He has 3 kids by 3 different women - 2 of these children were born when he had just graduated from high school. the other child was born 2 years before I met him. He and I tried having a child but we ...

A.   16 April 2011: Thanks for the responses Mamabear and Anonymous. I really appreciate it.... (read in full...)

Am I too sensitive to my mother's needs and too hard on my husband?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 10 years. My 83 year old mom moved in with us about 6 months ago. My husband hates my mom. He only bids her the time of day and doesn't say anything else to her. This is very uncomfortable for me and my ...

A.   3 January 2011: Everyone, thanks for the feedback - really appreciated. CaringGuy: I admit that my mom is way too dependent on me. I will work on the situation as I don't want to end my marriage. Anonymous: You made very valid points. Last week I inquired ... (read in full...)

Am I too sensitive to my mother's needs and too hard on my husband?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 10 years. My 83 year old mom moved in with us about 6 months ago. My husband hates my mom. He only bids her the time of day and doesn't say anything else to her. This is very uncomfortable for me and my ...

A.   3 January 2011:  Thanks to all who responded - I really appreciate the feedback. A third party's opinion always helps in resolving the situation. ... (read in full...)

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