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I want him and I don't want him but I don't want to get hurt!

Q.   Dear Cupid Is there is anyone out there who can feel my pain and confusion? I hope someone understand my problem and help me for real I feel like sinking in the bottom of the ocean and need a hand to drag me out. ----------------------- ...

A.   7 February 2012: I fancy that you might be feeling a little confused and as you have described, a train wreck. I should tell you though - no matter what you go through in life, you shouldn't stop yourself from caring about people/letting them in because eventually ... (read in full...)

My wife left me whilst I was away in Iraq and all she left was a note saying 'I'm sorry'!

Q.   I just returned from Iraq on leave today to find my apartment empty. My wife took my son, my dog, and emptied my bank account...The one thing she left was a note on her side of the bed with her wedding ring was a note that simply said "I'm sorry". ...

A.   4 August 2011: I'm sorry, but you clearly don't deserve someone like that. Love is when you can wait for somebody for years and still feel the same passion you felt for them as before. Clearly she was impatient and simply didn't love you very much if she coul... (read in full...)

Unexpectedly pregnant and not sure if I really want a termination....

Q.   Ok so here goes. Im in a relationship with an amazing man. he's 22 and im 26 We've been together for just over a year and i have fallen unexpectedly pregnant. We have discussed it and decided the best option in a termination ( I don't want you views ...

A.   8 March 2011: As much as the baby's father plays a crucial role within this decision, you yourself have to decide because you will be the one bearing the consequences for the rest of your life. This baby just isn't some unexpected "happening" that pops into lives ... (read in full...)

My relationship is causing me so much stress, that I can't think straight. ...

Q.   Sorry up front for the long post. I have a lot on my mind and this is as short as I could possibly make it. I'm having trouble trusting my girlfriend lately and frankly, as things stand now, I have a strong urge to break up with her. We've been ...

A.   8 March 2011: Think about it this way - no matter how much you love your girlfriend, this sort of situation will remain an issue if she chooses to continue with this obnoxious behavior. Granted, friends are necessary and when you need them they should be there... (read in full...)

He's asked me out on a date but he's so effeminate!!!

Q.   Hey, I have been talking to this dude for about a week. Get on great with him! Hes lovely, hes really funny and quite ambitious. The thing is, hes quite feminine, haha. I think hes gay like! And he did ask he out on two days ago for a date. Now ...

A.   7 March 2011: Well, if you like him go for it. But don't get into anything just for the thrill of dating someone or always having a companion by your side. Going out requires responsibility. Don't lead him on if you're going to have constant doubts about his ... (read in full...)

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