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Are Virgos able to forgive?

Q.   Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their ...

A.   28 July 2009: She asked me to stay away and never contact her and is ok.Its hard not to. She was all to me and I miss her. I will never forget her but I have accepted the fact that she will never come back in to my life.I always smile when I think of her..she ... (read in full...)

I've lied about having orgasm

Q.   hi. i know this is of my own making but ive lied to every boyfriend ive ever had (2) about orgasming. i make noises and they thik im having a great time. i do this really because it makes the experience more sexy for me, but i know its totally ...

A.   27 December 2008: I feel the same as you do...I been seeing this guy and from the begining I been telling him but he doesnt listen..I dont fake it he asumes I had an orgasm..I told him again and he got offended and wants to buy a toy..I explain again thatis all wrong ... (read in full...)

I need sex tips!

Q.   hi im 35 and have started a relationship and the sex is good but im not very experiaced and my partner keeps asking me to go on top off him during sex but i dont know what to do in that position ive never been on top b4 during sex and im embarrased ...

A.   21 December 2008: The past few partners Ive had wanted me on top...I dont like that position very much because I end up doing most of the work and they rather not have too much variety of positions..For some women is the best position to stimulate the G-spot and have ... (read in full...)

She asked one night if I wanted to kiss her, I said yes, and we did. Then she says she's not okay with it. I need some answers please.

Q.   I have a friend who Ive fallen for, and when I told her she ignored my comment. One night after another conversation she asked if I wanted to kiss her and I said yes, so we did. It was the best ever and I never felt complete. After that night she ...

A.   2 December 2008: Well its been a few months. I appearently did not do well by sending flowers for the holidays...I was asked never to contact her again..I am upset but kinda expected this decision from her.. I will move on and not wait and will give up all hope of ... (read in full...)

How do you know what you've ruined a friendship?

Q.   How do you "know" when you have ruined a friendship? I have a best friend that I care about so much that he means the sun and moon to be, but recently I said some things to him that were rash, impulsive, and selfish, and I know that I hurt him....

A.   29 November 2008: Hi I was in a similar position but with my best friend..We grew closer and things got complicated and yet we ignored what was really going on.We never really clarified things..I hurt her feelings by asking where our frienship really stood and all ... (read in full...)

How can I feel alive again?

Q.   I was with my children husband for 26 y/rs I left him 1 1/2 yr ago. The relationship was abusive and he the past few yrs was diagnosed bipolar. I know I did the right thing to leave and so do my children. Last yr I quit my nursing career due to the ...

A.   12 October 2008: I been an emotional mess for a long time and its hard for me to see the light at the end of the tunnel..Im full of fear and sadness but I quite often pretend all is well. I will continue with counselling as long as it takes.. I forgave my ex-husband ... (read in full...)

Does anyone out there believe in Soulmates???

Q.   This is more of asking your opinions... does anyone believe in soulmates? and if yes how do you know when your find your soulmate? Thanks....

A.   9 October 2008: I never believed in soulmates until I found mine this past year. Was like we'd known each other since childhood. It's my best friend. She and I are almost like twin sisters. We are from different countries yet our lives have been so similar and our ... (read in full...)

Are Virgos able to forgive?

Q.   Once a Virgo has had their fellings hurt and they ask for sometime to think and feel uncomfotable around the one who hurt them . Are Virgos able to forgive after an apology has been made right away or do they just eliminate the person out of their ...

A.   1 October 2008: I think that every sign has its characteristics. My youngest daughter is a virgo and I cant figure her out sometimes. She is quiet and seems at times emotionless yet other times she is explosive. I know she cares cause she does things to show me she ... (read in full...)

Should I put my mom in a nursinghome?

Q.   Hi I am going through the hardest time of my life right now and feel terriable and guilty. My Mother is 84 years old with really bad dementia. So me and my daughter had to move in but she has never liked my daughter and has a controlling ...

A.   30 September 2008: It will be hard for you at first to put her in a nursing home but is the best decision you can make..Mom will be taken care of 24/7 and you can relax and care for your family. Because mom is in a nursing home doesnt mean you can not enjoy being with ... (read in full...)

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