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My ex is now married and I'm having a hard time actually moving on with my life

Q.   Hey all, so I used to write on here a while back when my ex and I broke up. Basically the gist is that she started dating a new guy like a few days after ending it with me. I pretty much assumed that she had feelings for him and wanted to be with ...

A.   23 April 2012: Don't let your self think about her. No contact is good but u can't just sit alone thinkin about her. U gota get a life even if u hate it go out, met friends, work, excercise, read, do jigsaws any thing that will keep u busy. You are the only person ... (read in full...)

Desperate for reassurance. Too emotional with him too fast.

Q.   I need desperate help. My clingyness and neediness is overwhelming and ruining a potential relationship. I am 23 years old and have been seeing a man who is 32. We have been "talking" or "seeing eachother" for about a month now. Right off the ba...

A.   5 April 2012: I know it's tough but you have to stop over thinkin this, lik the guy said its only been a month. If your upset by how things are then change them. Don't be so available to him say no and make other plans with ur friends. Ul feel better if u give ur ... (read in full...)

Is it naive to think your relationship with your spouse is special or unique?

Q.   I was working on my wife's computer recently, and I found some old emails from about 3 and 4 years ago between my wife and a couple of her exes. I couldn't resist the temptation to read them. I don't know that I really feel jealous (at leas...

A.   13 March 2012: Think u maybe on to something, although I'm sure uv told past girl friends u loved them and such. It's just sweet talk you sud know from who she is and how she treats u if its special or not. ... (read in full...)

Haven't heard from him in 2 weeks - confused

Q.   I have been dating this guy (we are both in our late 20's) about 3 months and prior to our first date we talked nearly every day one the phone for a month. It's been 3 weeks since we've seen each other and 2 weeks since I've heard from him. We had ...

A.   26 February 2012: Just sit back and wait for him to contact you, uv text n called wat more can u do. If he dose contact u make sure his story is good. I wudnt get too excited bot dis guy if can't return s phone call he's nt worth it ! ... (read in full...)

I don't understand how he could like me so much one minute, then go cold the next!

Q.   I am very, very frustrated. I met a guy last year from uni, and we hit it off. It blew over before Christmas, but just recently we've started speaking again. We went on a kind of date last Thursday which was lovely, and he said he wanted to see me...

A.   19 February 2012: Sounds lik maybe he has a girlfriend and was tryin not to get caught out by his friends. Give him another chance and if you notice this kind behaviour again cut ur losses he's playing you! ... (read in full...)

Is it fair to say someone never loved you just because they hurt u

Q.   Is it fair to say someone never loved you just because they hurt u. I have recently come out of a two year relationship where I thought we loved each other. I am now questioning if he cared for me at all. Looking back over his past behaviour I can ...

A.   18 February 2012: Tanks I no your right I need to stop over thinkin all of it, its just my nature. I just wonder if half the time people find it hard to let go of someone is that they can't except dat dey were wrong. U know lik its moRe an ego thing. Tanks again ... (read in full...)

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