I'm really disappointed in myself. How can I motivate myself?
Q. So lately i have been feeling like a nobody. I dont have a job, i dropped out of school back in 2008, havent been able to get my g.e.d and have been a house wife ever since my son was born in 2009. Ive had two jobs between 2009 thru now but didnt ...
A. 7 February 2013: Dear disappointed, I'm going to give you two perspectives on this dilemma. The first perspective is home maker. Don't ever underestimate the power of being a wife and a mother. It's true when they say that behind every good man is a gr... (read in full...)
Depressed over teacher leaving school!
Q. i really like this teacher ever since i came in year 7. i had him for two months (i really really love him, but i never tried anything on him) and my grades went sky high and moved to a different class. i was really depressed for a few months, but ...
A. 5 September 2012: It is very common for young ladies to develop feelings for teachers and other older men in their lives. Boys in the early teens are much less mature than girls and leave much to be desired in relationships. You have to understand, however, how ... (read in full...)
I fell for her pretty hard. Should I send her another message to check if she received the first one?
Q. So, there's this girl, let's call her X, I really like. We've known each other for a couple of years, and we worked together quite closely previously. While we were working together I fell for her pretty hard, but never made any moves or voiced my...
A. 5 September 2012: It sounds to me that even though you wish to pursue a relationship with X, you still enjoy her company and being friends. While it may be hard since you're so attracted to her, this friendship may be worth preserving to you. Her delay in ... (read in full...)
What's the right way to break up with him?
Q. last year I met someone and I liked him and I thought I loved him but now I know many things he knew about me and kept away from me, he was always talking to people behind my back about some stuff of my past and it was very hard for me to know all ...
A. 5 September 2012: Whatever you do, be honest with him in your explanation should you choose to provide one. He has obviously hurt you by being deceitful and regardless of how much you may want revenge, it will only drop you to his level of immaturity. Take the high ... (read in full...)
Is he flirting or just very friendly?
Q. I work at a position where my university hires their students to work.. Well, this 36 year old undergrad (went back to school) befriended me and he's married for about 4 years with a baby. He's extremely friendly and always asking for hugs (one time ...
A. 5 September 2012: From several statements in your posting, I understand that his behavior has raised several red flags with you already. This alone is enough for you to set boundaries and make put some emotional distance between the two of you. His seemingly ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I want to try different positions, any suggestions?
Q. I’m tall and my boyfriend is short. Both my boyfriend and I enjoy having sex and are willing to try different positions, other than me on top and missionary! got any suggestions?? ...
A. 1 September 2012: There's also an android app, I believe called "sex positions". It shows a number of bed, swimming pool, and other location positions including the benefits and shortcomings of said positions. Quite informative.... (read in full...)
How do I solve this problem? I need to meet people in my new city!
Q. I'm in need of some advice both in terms of social and dating. Recently I just moved city due to a new job. The problem here is I don't know anyone in this city at all; and it's a bit of a distance from anyone I used to know. I'm not sure ex...
A. 1 September 2012: One of the more important aspects of meeting people is having something in common with them. You should get out on the town (and not necessarily in bars) and do the things you love. Visit museums, go to concerts, whatever you like, if you find ... (read in full...)
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