How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 8 September 2005: Well all I can say is love has to be returned as well. and your 16 its unlikely your are in love Im 15 and yes i have major crushes and you know you can mistake it for love but i doubt it is. ...hope that helped... (read in full...)
My husband won't stand up and say NO to anyone...
Q. I have been married for 8 years and have had it with the fact my husband don't have a backbone. He can't say NO to anyone except ME. He lets his friend use him and when I get fed up and mad and tell him he better tell them or I will, he still won't. ...
A. 8 September 2005: I have a friend andrew who is like this, he wont say no to anyone. I think your husbend just doesnt want to cause problems and arguments. But his friends shouldnt be using him as a doormat. Maybe you could sit down and explain to him that if these ... (read in full...)
I started to go down on him and he said "Don't bother"...
Q. I just started dating this guy. We fooled around for the first time the other night and when I went down to return the favor he told me not to bother because he's only gotten off twice like that with his ex-girlfriend. I hesitated to ask if he's ...
A. 8 September 2005: I would just suggest whatever floats his boat...i mean as long as your enjoying yourself and he is enjoying himself what does it matter? But you could try teeling him you want to go down on him and maybe you can show him why he should want you to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sexual abuse still haunts her when we start getting intimate...
Q. Sorry to bother, but I am starting to wonder what I can do to better please my girlfriend. We are both 18 and have been going out for 6 months, but only started having sex recently. She was abused as a child, and the feelings still haunt her. J...
A. 8 September 2005: Well all i can suggest is make her feel like she is loved. Tell her you love her and reassure she is safe with you. Try and show her gestures of how you feel about her e.g. flowers , chocolates or even better a poem that shows how you feel about ... (read in full...)
Should I write and apologise to my ex about the bad way I handled our break-up?
Q. I found some old letters in my stack of books and in them was one from "Jake". We dated 8 years ago when I was 18 for about 3-4 months. He was amazing to me, maybe the nicest bfriend I ever had. We were never intimate with one another, although ...
A. 8 September 2005: Well I mean If I was you i wouldnt get in touch again. this guy may have a new life and is most proberly over you and you could just drag up painful memories for both of you. b ut if you really feel you should get in touch with him start of by ... (read in full...)
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