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writes:Hey everyone. I need help and fast. I met this guy a month ago and we went out 2 weeks later. So far we have been going out for 2 weeks and all of a sudden he is telling me that he thinks its not working out and his feelings are starting to go away. Were only with each other at lunch and thats it. We dont talk after school or on the weekends so were only with each other 30 min a day, five days a week. Im guessing the problem is that we dont spend enough time with each other and thats why his feelings are fading but my friends are getting mad at me because they say i ignore them because of my boyfriend, so if im with them at lunch, his feelings are surely to go even quicker. What should i do ?? I cant lose him because i do care about him. Yea i know it would not be the end of the world so please dont say that. Just asking what should i do or say to keep him ?? THanks so much :D Reply to this Question
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reader, Brutus +, writes (28 March 2010):
ok first off let him go, if hes worth your time you will end up talking again that or try to do something with him after school. Second if you hang out with your friends all the time and you hang out with him 30 min a day wtf are your friends smoking? and to be all honest here if your friends give ur advice DONT Do NOT Listen to IT! Your friends dnt know anything about the world at your age and will more than likly give you shitty advice beleave me Ive seen it happen far to much, from both ends as the friend and as the guy (I wasent the one giving the bad advice btw when I was on the friend end) in all likly hood at your age your friends would advise you to stay with an asshole over the nice guy just cuz they think hes cooler so be ware of this.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Get to know more about him and his hobbies and interests so that you can share a mutual interest.It can bring you two closer together when there is a mutual interest.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 March 2010):
You've known him a month and spend 30 min. a day with him..hmm I think you'll be fine losing him BUT, contrary to popular belief, if you do hang with your friends and not him, it will make him more interested. Why? Cause he's a boy and wants what he can't have. And you should care more about your friends than him. You're taking your friends for granted, they'll always be there because they're your friends, but boys come and go. Let him go for now, you don't want to be with him if he's not into you, and ignore him. Trust me, boys turn into little babies and become putty in your hand when you act like you could care less.
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