He says he will call me right back and does not...smh...why do men do that?
Q. Why does he sometimes say "stay by the phone, imma call you right back," and does not??? I admit it is annoying. What should I do in that situation?...
A. 30 October 2010: As guys we're often just kind of clueless that it might be irritating to anyone. We pull that kind of thing on each other all the time without thinking twice. Plus we're often a little clueless as to the passage of time. In guy speak you could ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband watching so much porn?
Q. we have been married for 4 years at first i had no clue . but every moring after i left for work my husband would watch porn and get him self off, even if we had sex the night before . now its geting to where he gets on the internet to watch coupels ...
A. 30 October 2010: Agree. I don't personally know a single guy who hasn't looked at porn (even the very religious ones). The male sex drive is almost unlimited compared to the female. It is also very visual. What you describe is VERY common. But if you talk with ... (read in full...)
It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!
Q. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...
A. 30 October 2010: Agree everyone here is way too alarmist. The question was specifically about pregnancy, not STDs. As a physician, I can say if you are taking birth control pills as prescribed they are over 90% effective in preventing pregnancy WHEN HAVING ... (read in full...)
Married and have a crush on my son's coach
Q. My son is playing his first year of football and I have the biggest crush on his coach. In the beginning of the season I didn't pay too much attention to him, as a matter of fact I called him an asshole. I saw him look at me a few times but I ...
A. 30 October 2010: He just wants sex with you. Guaranteed, speaking from a guy's perspective. But it sounds like that might be what you want too although perhaps you haven't admitted it to yourself? You're playing with fire here, woman. He probably realized his ... (read in full...)
What is dirty talk?
Q. What do men want when they say they want dirty talk. Can anyone give me some ideas of what they are talking about. Do they want me to call them a dirty boy and start spanking them? Or is dirty talk more of "oh f*** me baby?" Just wanted to see what ...
A. 30 October 2010: I agree with the above generally, but why don't you just say, "That could mean anything. Tell me what you like?" If he's like the guys I know he will have no hesitation telling you exactly what he means and will appreciate you asking him very much.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend physical with me, it always involves alcohol
Q. I love my fiance more then anything! We plan on getting married and having babies together. We have been through so much together and I know he loves me dearly! I have never been in such a loving relationship but the other day he beat me up quite ...
A. 30 October 2010: I'm a doctor and I agree to some extent with both posters above. However, extreme alcoholism or intoxication can bring out paranoid behaviors that would never be present in the absence of alcohol. However I disagree that alcohol is a "truth serum" ... (read in full...)
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