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14 and possibly pregnant, I'm not ready for this!

Q.   OK so me and this boy had sex twice about a month apart.. and i think I'm pregnant but i don't know he didn't wear a condom he thinks they are stupid and he use the pullout method the first time he discharge on the backseat..(we did it a car)and the ...

A.   6 August 2010: If you're not ready for pregnancy, you're not ready for sex. Not only is it illegal for you to have sex because you're so young, but since your body is still growing it can cause harm to your genitals. Even if a man doesn't come inside you, as ... (read in full...)

Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?

Q.   Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...

A.   4 August 2010: I wouldn't do that to my partner. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, and if this is one of yours, so be it - there's nothing wrong with that.... (read in full...)

His favourite sites are "rape porn"!

Q.   I found out that my husband looks up hardcore porn. His favourite sites are "rape porn" where women are shown to be attacked and brutally treated. I'm completely repulsed by this and feel sick to my stomach that anyone would be excited by this ...

A.   2 July 2009: There's nothing wrong with going on rape porn sites, I do it, it's my favourite type of porn, and there's nothing wrong with me.... (read in full...)

Does he want me to act like a pornstar?

Q.   About a month ago my boyfriend asked me if we could have sex in a different position (just to make things a little different) i'd already been on top, so he said why not face the other way? I instantly felt uncomfortable and said no. I asked why he ...

A.   12 May 2009: There's nothing wrong with having sex in different positions - your partner is probably just bored of doing the same, dull, positions every time you have sex. Every guy knows sex positions without having to look at porn, and even if he was look... (read in full...)

Is three years long enough to have been together before getting engaged?

Q.   I'm so excited. My byfriend has gotten me an engagement ring. ^_^ We still won't be getting married for a few years- we'll be saving money and such for a house, car, etc, etc... we've been together for three years, and our love is stronger than...

A.   29 April 2009: Yep, certainly is! My fiance proposed to me on our 3 year anniversary, just before Christmas :) We'd been living together for months by then. Congrats!... (read in full...)

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