The communication has stopped and he says he doesn't love me, only "cares for" me...
Q. A couple of weeks ago my partner of 10 years told his daughter to go back to her mother, which she did. He has tried on many occasions to contact her but no luck. The problem now arises that he has gone very quiet and will not talk. He has also tol...
A. 7 August 2005: This guy is DEPRESSED. If he hasn't sought help already, please make sure he gets help yesterday. Til he deals with this he isn't going to be a good dad or mate. ... (read in full...)
Breaking up was probably a good idea, so why do I feel so bad?
Q. I know people always say, "time's a healer" and "you made the right choice", but after I left my partner of 3 1/2years, 1 month ago, I still feel as if it was the worst decision I ever made. I left him because he would never make me a priori...
A. 7 August 2005: You feel bad because you've been treated badly. And we don't like to admit we used bad judgement. I know I don't.
It makes me sad to see you've written all your friends have moved on. Make an extra effort to reconnect and to connect with others w... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't get that I want and need foreplay before we get into sex!
Q. As my member name reads, I'm 20 years younger than my husband. I'm a Filipina now situated in the US. By the way I get stares when we go out, I'm proud to say I attract attention. I believe I'm beautiful with my polyneisan features, natural tan ...
A. 7 August 2005: I hope that communication with your husband will bring about better times in bed. I totally agree with Ana, do not talk about this in bed. You sound like a beautiful woman and I hope your husband wants to see you as happy as he can make you. ... (read in full...)
A bad experience with another girlfriend means he thinks things will go bad between us, too!
Q. My boyfriend is very insecure about himself, how can I make him get past all his problems?? Hi, I'm 15 years old..and I have a boyfriend who's 17. We've talked to each other for about 5 months now and we love each other. He is my first love ...
A. 7 August 2005: Cee, for a shy insecure guy, he was proposing at fifteen? Whoa, most guys don't even date at that age! Why not take it slow, and let him get to know and trust you and see what happens? I don't think he can get rid of the past, but with time and ... (read in full...)
I'm not shy. I'm happy to ask girls out, but what do I actually SAY?
Q. Right, let me explain my situation; I'm 17, living in England, and never had girlfriend. Up until the last year or so of course I've been interested, though this hasn't really bothered me, but since I went to college and met friends that hav...
A. 7 August 2005: If all these girls are flirting with you and keep coming back for more, it's time to ask one of them to go to a movie, fly a kite, skating or whatever first date you'd like to do. They are putting out signals, you are interested, and it's a heck of ... (read in full...)
Except for the lying and the cheating, our relationship would be perfect...
Q. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of almost three years cheated on me for the second time. I literally had to force the answer out of him even though I had asked him many times before. He has been lying to me for months. We are still to...
A. 7 August 2005: Lying and cheating are never good things for a relationship. I'll bet you will soon find a guy who is worth your love and devotion after taking a little time for yourself. I wouldn't start dating right away, maybe just hanging out with friends for ... (read in full...)
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