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Things have gone from bad to worse since I told the truth. What should I do now?

Q.   I hurt my husband badly and I apologised for that, but his reaction makes me feel like withdrawing my apology. We have been married for a year. We dated for two years before marrying. It was a terrible time for me. During this time, I did the begg...

A.   10 August 2012: "He is a good man now. He calls me all sorts of names, insults me and even beat me once. He is a sweet person, but can really be abusive when he sees that you are not shouting back. He only stops talking when he sees you cant take his abuse and ... (read in full...)

I want to show up to his house in something seductive!

Q.   Hello. Me and my boyfriend had sex last night for the first time. Tomorrow morning I'm going to his house we are going to spend the day together. I want to show up in something sexy to seduce him. Is it too soon or should i do it? ...

A.   9 August 2012: Abella, excellent advise.... (read in full...)

Facebook messages have him convinced I'm cheating

Q.   My boyfriend got into my facebook account and saw messages off other guys. I didn't reply to them but I also didn't tell them to go away or delete the people off my friends list. A few weeks after tha he asked to c my phone but my inbox and outbox ...

A.   9 August 2012: He has control issues and abandon problems. Jealousy is an evil problem with him. Put a stop to it or he'll drive you away. Get off Facebook as it's a huge security problem. See your pictures you post on Facebook? There are also on the internet as ... (read in full...)

What do you do in your bedroom? I need some idea's!

Q.   Hi! So im just curious about how others or what others do in their bedrooms. I wouldnt say im trying to spice my sex life, but i would like to try something new that i havent thought of. I dont get much out of dressing up so its more for him. But i ...

A.   9 August 2012:  MidtownToDowntown said, "We would always touch one another under the table while the other was talking to someone. Not full on feeling up, just really high up the thigh, sometimes a quick squeeze up higher. Sometimes we'd leave the bar early ... (read in full...)

I found the perfect wedding dress, but it is white!

Q.   Hello! I am getting married next spring. Excitment! The other day I went window shopping and I've seen the prettiest little (and very cheap) dress ever. But... it's white! I'm in my early 30s and I'm not a virgin anymore and all the people at my we...

A.   9 August 2012: If YOU like it buy it. White is the traditional color but it's your day!... (read in full...)

Will oral sex have prepared me for regular sex?

Q.   Basically, im a 19 year old virgin and a guy. I guess in my younger teen years I had low confidence and never got round to getting a serious girlfriend or having sex. Now that im 19 I feel like im missing out and I really, really want to start ha...

A.   9 August 2012: You have great courage to say the truth about what you know. Oral sex, if it was with a girl, can certainly teach you how to please your wife. Most guys just want a blow without knowing how to please their woman. Take your time & grow together with ... (read in full...)

Should I pursue a relationship with this guy or move on?

Q.   so i had a crush on this guy..lets call him dan. things didnt work out with us but i ended up dating his best friend. we'll call him luke. so luke and i dated for about 6 months and we broke up. i ended up having sex with dan and i hurt luke alot. i ...

A.   9 August 2012: You need to give yourself room to grow up. Having sex to make a person jealous is very immature. Let it go so you can grow!... (read in full...)

What do you do in your bedroom? I need some idea's!

Q.   Hi! So im just curious about how others or what others do in their bedrooms. I wouldnt say im trying to spice my sex life, but i would like to try something new that i havent thought of. I dont get much out of dressing up so its more for him. But i ...

A.   9 August 2012: "A woman who is always up for sex is way better than one who occasionally does something mind-blowing but probably isn't totally into it." person12345, This is excellent advice. A woman who has sexual passion for her man will keep him fed so that... (read in full...)

I can't stand being around him!

Q.   I have been dreading posting this question because I know all the negative responses I will get. I know I am by no means a perfect person but I don't think I am awful either. I have a problem with with my husband's friends. Or any previous boy...

A.   8 August 2012: Before I respond, I am asking you this: Who hurt you, besides your dad? You are controlling as you have had the trust removed from you either in a rapid way or over a period of time. Did you know that the wall you are building or have built, will ... (read in full...)

Is this a FWB or an actual relationship?

Q.   Hi,this could be confusing, but im confused too, sooo here it goes ive been seeing this guy as a friends with benefits since may 26th 2012, its now august 2nd, and were still seing eachother as that. I am falling for him and im not sure what i ...

A.   8 August 2012: It sounds like the FWB is growing into a relationship. FYI, FWB is a relationship too, just different.... (read in full...)

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