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... Send *asBond a private message | | | *asBond's profile:Hi, Im Bas. Been around for a long long time. Had my heart broken a few times (you understand why they call it a broken heart when you are curled up in agony) and broken a few along the way. Had a few amazing lovers and quite a few poor ones (you are not always compatible whatever you do or try). Was taught lovemaking at 28 by a lady that lived with a porn film director, what she didn't know you don't need.Before that I thought I knew it all but knew very little. Last time my heart was broken I wanted to die but knew time would be the healer. I still love her but know I have to move on. I hope I can help you learn from my mistakes. Bas. |
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I like older men, is the age gap a problem?
Q. I'm 18 but i like guys who are around 25-27 because most of the guys i have been with around my age are total pr*cks who have just used me for sex. However, I find that the older 1s actually want to know ME not my body, is this too much of an a...
A. 4 December 2009: Hi, At your age this may seem like a large age gap. Give it 20 years and no one would even notice! Most of us guys are stuck in a teenage timewarp so you are probably the more mature one anyway. We all learn from our mistakes as we grow older which ... (read in full...)
Do you need a condom to get a blow job?
Q. Hye there friends.. I need a lil advice. Me and my gf of 8 months years (we are both 16) were hangin together last night. And she just randomly asked to give me a bj. I was elated cuz we've never even touched on that kind of stuff before. But the ...
A. 19 October 2009: Seems to me that some of the responses are a bit over the top about STI's as your a virgin! A blow job with a condom takes away most of the sensitivity and feeling you get, though is a darn sight better than no BJ! Probably she was as unsure as you ... (read in full...)
Am I being used?
Q. hello, i really like this guy, i have just broken up with his best friend, and now even tho his best friend dumped me, my ex hates me. but his best freind is so nice to me, but only at certain moment, he only texts me or is nice to me when he wants ...
A. 28 May 2009: hi, Two best friends and the same woman is going to create problems, loads of jealousy and trouble are likely to occur. Either they will not be best friends much longer or you will be dumped by the new guy when he has had some fun with you and the ... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 28 May 2009: well goes to show how often a simple mix up can lead to problems. hope you go the course. all the best for the future. Bas... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 8 April 2009: hi, You had me confused by your initial post, which you only made clearer in your second entry.does 'making it official' mean having sex by any chance? Did he understand what you were trying to say or have you left him confused as well? Bas... (read in full...)
Why do ex's do this after a break up?
Q. Hoping the great agony aunts on here can help. My live in boyfriend of twelve years and I parted company a year ago. He moved back to his hometown a long way away. It is a distance to drive, seventeen hours to be exact...Canada is a big country. It ...
A. 20 March 2009: hi there, I certainly know what you are going through and how rough it can be. I'm afraid that this is the way these things go sometime, with one person still emotionaly tied while the other wants and has the capacity to move on and has a new ... (read in full...)
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