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He's a compulsive gamer and I feel like a spare part in our relationship

Q.   I'm leaving my boyfriend of two years because he doesn't care enough to make time for us. He works in IT and has always got his face in a computer. He's a compulsive gamer and isn't good at compromise. It's breaking my heart to go, we've been ...

A.   25 June 2006: This is so crazy, because a guy in my acting class was a computer poker player, and lived with his girlfriend. She was in the same spot as you, and he told us he gave up poker on the computer because he would rather have his relationship. All the ... (read in full...)

Trying to get over him...but it's painful. I'm texting him but am not sending. Good idea?

Q.   Im trying to get over Derek but what seems to really hurt is him telling me not to contact me again. We did say to each other what ever happens we'll remain friends. We did have a good friendship. When he has been with women in the past, he always ...

A.   26 April 2006: I agree with hotmama. I know that the best thing you can do to get over this guy is to have no contact with him whatsoever. You need space from him to heal. Do not text him. I beg you. walk away with dignity and grace. I think this is your ... (read in full...)

We broke up and he tells me I am too large for sex. Should I believe him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I just broke up.. It's kinda a long story so I won't get into it. Part of our problem was sexual. He started by saying that I am super hot..the hottest girl he has ever been with. He would watch me in the shower, masterbate while ...

A.   26 April 2006: Thank you for all the advice. This has been hell for me. This guy is younger by the way. He is 26 and I am 31. He was interested in me for two years before I dated him, and I felt he was too young for me.. I gave him a chance when he turned ... (read in full...)

Have an eating disorder, How can I overcome this?

Q.   I need to know if my paculiar eating habits are due to some sort of eating disorder. After i broke up with my ex i started only eating three small meals a day (i used to snack all the time). Now i sometimes forget to eat, which is something i never ...

A.   25 April 2006: I broke up with someone a week ago, and find it difficult to eat also. This comes with grief. We lose our appetite. I went to the grocery store today, and went down every aisle, and only bought what I thought I could handle. Small things. This ... (read in full...)

The boy I like doesn't want a relationship, should I move on?

Q.   hi Im 16 and there's this boy at one of the clubs that i go to and i really like him and he likes me to, but there is just one problem, he doesnt want a relationship yet, because he always mucking all his previous relationships up. He tells me ...

A.   25 April 2006: Honey you are sooo young, I am 31, and I wish someone had given me the advice in a book I just read called "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tucillo. If he doesn't want a relationship and he is saying that, that is what he ... (read in full...)

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