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writes: hi Im 16 and there's this boy at one of the clubs that i go to and i really like him and he likes me to, but there is just one problem, he doesnt want a relationship yet, because he always mucking all his previous relationships up. He tells me he loves me but, he cant love me enough to go out with me. im really confused and dont know what to do about him. shall i forget about him or keep trying. xx thankx xx
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reader, just-as-confused-as-u +, writes (25 April 2006):
 lads at 16 are to imature to have a proper relationship any way which is why he's messed up previous ones dont bother with him move find some one who wants what you want as well good luck x
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reader, Babybear +, writes (25 April 2006):
Honey you are sooo young, I am 31, and I wish someone had given me the advice in a book I just read called "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tucillo. If he doesn't want a relationship and he is saying that, that is what he means. It may not be what you want to hear, but the sooner women stop putting enery into men that are not that into them the better off they are. So stop trying...men should be trying to get you cutie! Get the book and read it... it's entertaining, and will help you now and in the future! Good luck!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (25 April 2006):
 It may sound terrible but i think the guy was just trying to reject you in the kindness why he knew how. i think he didnt want to hurt your feeling so just told you something that you could handle. i think you should move on, what you feeling right now is just a crush there be others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006): The reason you are confused is probably because you have more integrity than he does and you need to begin using your head to really evaluate what your heart wants. This guy is a cad and he's lying to you. If he truely liked/loved you, he'd be by your side, this minute. Forget about him and move forward. Find some who can love you the way you want...you won't get it from this guy.
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reader, miss ellie-may +, writes (24 April 2006):
 this is going to sound so harsh so im really sorry! thats almost word for word the excuse i gave a guy that i just wasnt into - i thort i liked him 4 a bit, then realised i didt, told him i didnt want to be with him coz i didnt want to risk falling for him as im a bad g/f, wen the truth was that i was just not that interested in him. im sorry if thats an unwelcome truth darling, but the fact is that he dcided to "not give up on me" and it just made him look desperate, annoying and frankly a little creepy!
forget about him if u can, and if u cant then at the very least save your pride and walk away before he makes a fool out of you. if you keep trying you will get next to know where and badly hurt.
good luck babe - let me know how it goes
love ya xxxxxx
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