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How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...

A.   26 February 2008: I could have written this question myself. When I was married to my first husband he stopped making love to me and I had no idea why. Eventually I confronted him and he admitted to masturbating. He did say he thought of me when he was masturbating. ... (read in full...)

I'm sure he's cheating, isn't he?

Q.   Here is my question. To make a long story short, My boyfriend got a text from a woman that he is supposedly "friends" with, asking if she left a pair of black pants at his house. I calmly asked him how long he had something going on with her. He ...

A.   26 February 2008: Personally I would be inclined to believe him and think that the text message about the black pants is some kind of a joke from one of his mates. ... (read in full...)

I am so inexperienced...can anybody help me get my self-confidence back up??

Q.   help, I am 14 and extremely unexperienced. I have done nothing my whole life. A guy hasnt done anything to me and i havent done anything to a guy. Any advice on how i can get my self confidence back up since all my friends have at least done somet...

A.   20 February 2008: Oh to be young and innocent again. This is the most exciting time of your young life. I can remember when my girlfriend spoke of what they had done with their boyfriends and I hadn't done anything close to what they were doing. I was so jealous and ... (read in full...)

Should I risk my marriage for the girl at work??

Q.   I'm a married man but there I'm tempted to cheat on my wife with a gorgeous brunette in my office. Shes cute, funny and has a gorgeous bum. The only problem she has a serious boyfriend and I'm married. She flirts with me and I flirt back, we h...

A.   20 February 2008: The big question here is " Will I get caught " isn't it ? If you are sure the answer is NO then go for it and never, NEVER admit anything and NEVER tell anyone. If your wife never finds out then no harm done.... (read in full...)

What is it like to live with an alcoholic?

Q.   i would like to know from anyone who knows how is it like to live with someone who is an alcoholic but can carry himself well when drunk. The reason i ask cos i think i have fallen for someone who drinks a lot (but make perfect sense while chatting) ...

A.   20 February 2008: Living with an alcoholic is like living with a time bomb - you never know when it is going to blow up. One minute they are nice - the next they are nasty. It's like walking on egg shells. Although I knew he was a heavy drinker I never thought it ... (read in full...)

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