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... Send *thena1989 a private message | | | *thena1989's profile:I have always been fascinated by advice - how it has the possibility to help people but if given badly destroy people and I have always wanted to be one of the people who gives good advice that can change people or at least help them in a small way.
I live in the UK and a lot of things make me tick- too many to write on here but I am just an average person, doing an average job but trying to make the average seem unadverage!
I am in a relationship - have been for ten years and I think through that relationship I have grown and learnt so much which I think qualifies me to help where other people need it - after all I must be doing something right!
I want to help and to guide and I hope that I'll be a good agony aunt to anyone that needs it. |
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Girlfriend is set on renting a house with me, but I don't know if I can afford it!
Q. hi, i am 22 and my girlfried is 19, my girlfriend of 9 months is planning on getting a flat with me next year, wich i dont feel ready for, i pay 180 a month to live with my mum and dad and am on a decent wage , and she pays 100 a month to live with ...
A. 25 February 2015: Speaking from experience: I did this with my boyfriend two years ago and I must warn you to ere on the side of caution! Money does tend to creep up on you and even if you are both on a decent wage (as we were) it still all adds up and can put a lot ... (read in full...)
I sent my BF a long sexual message and he replied in only one word. Should I be upset? Or aAm I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend is out of town on business. He has been in touch everyday. Says he misses me, thinks about me all the time. I emailed him a very sexually charged message today, quite lengthy, telling him what I want him to do to me in explicit deta...
A. 25 February 2015: I don't think you should be upset, maybe it took him by surprise. Is this the first message you have sent him of this nature? Have you ever discussed sexting, phone sex? Maybe it wasn't a good time - if he is on business, was he alone? With clients? ... (read in full...)
An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?
Q. Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything...
A. 25 February 2015: 'Leopards never change their spot' but then people aren't leopards so they can change IF they have the motivation and the want to change. Your son's father (and yourself) were both very young when your son was born but whereas you became a mother i... (read in full...)
Why does he seem interested and then go distant?
Q. I met this guy online last year in April, we spoke for months as he worked away in the navy. When he got back we met in person and it went great and planned to meet again. Within a week he stopped talking and cancelled our next date. I didn't hear ...
A. 25 February 2015: Shamefully it would seem as though he is using you and slightly manipulating you as he is making you feel guilty for the way you ended things. He is the one who is holding all the cards, puppeting you along because he knows you will be there. Y... (read in full...)
We were dating exclusively... then I found out he slept with someone else?????
Q. I've been dating a guy for a few months now. We said both agreed that we are seeing each other exclusively (as i don't like rushing into relationships but also liked him enough to only be interested in him) But I've just found out he slept with ...
A. 25 February 2015: Unfortunately men and women see exclusivity as two different things and they also see love as two different things. Men equate relationships and their being exclusive with sex - he probably reasoned with himself that even though you had both agreed ... (read in full...)
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