He's 46 and ogles the teen girls! How do I deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend is 46 years old. I am the same age. Whenever, we are out shopping, he really looks (I mean really staring and ogling) at teen girls about the age of 13-16 years old. I feel rather disgusted with this behaviour and I feel sorry for the ...
A. 17 January 2006: And as for people who claim looking means he'll go further and molest someone, I do not agree with that statement. It is possible, but no more likely than it would be for a man who only looks at women ages 30 and up to molest/rape those women. The ... (read in full...)
The relationship is wonderful, but he confessed a dark secret: he's 2 years older than he said he was...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. Everything is wonderful, we love each other so much and we cannot get enough of each other. I have never been happier and I know he feels the same way. We have recently decided that we are ready ...
A. 17 January 2006: If this is the only lie he's told you, I'd say forgive but don't forget. Talk about it with him and talk about why it gives you pause. Then don't mention it again.
If he's lied to you about other things, as small as they may be, you may want to ... (read in full...)
There is a big age gap and what does he really want?
Q. Hi I am 16 years old and have a part time job. About four months ago a new chef started at work. After the 2nd weekend of working together he started texting me. He says he really fancies me and he has even said he is in love with me. The only pro...
A. 17 January 2006: You must handle this situation with caution, yes - but the age gap does not make it inherently wrong. There are many things you need to think about here.
1) Are you willing to go against the societal norm if you do end up falling in love with him... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings for my twin sister...
Q. Somebody please help me. I don't know if it's normal but i have started to have sexual feelings for my twin sister. My bedroom is being re-painted and i have been sleeping in her bedroom, i can't stop staring at her when she is asleep. She is really ...
A. 17 January 2006: While I won't even try to judge your feelings, I do think you need to refrain from telling your sister about them. Most people would not react kindly to such information from a sibling, and sometimes there truly are emotions that we must keep to ... (read in full...)
I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?
Q. I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls ...
A. 17 January 2006: You say your daughter knows most everything about how the human body functions. Does this include the topic of masturbation? Does she know that it happens and what you think of it? If so, there is nothing more to bring up to her about it.
Wheth... (read in full...)
Our 16 year old son is with a 43 year old woman...what do we do?
Q. Recently me and my husband found out that our 16-year-old son has been dating a 43-year-old woman and has got engaged to her. We asked our son if this was true, and he said it was. He told us he is talking of getting engaged to her and havin...
A. 17 January 2006: The first concern you should have is, is this legal? What is the age of consent where you live? If your son is not old enough to legally consent to a sexual relationship, you need to discuss this with him. Aside from any personal problems you may ... (read in full...)
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