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We agreed to try for a baby--now he wants me to get rid of it!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we are also living together. We both agreed to try for a baby--then last week when I found out I was pregnant I told him and he was so disappointed and told me to get rid of it. I was so confused...

A.   25 June 2007: You didn't do a thing. He's the one who can't make his mind up....This is more serious though. Don't think of the baby as his,if he acts this way...lose him and keep that wonderful thing that's growing inside of you. I am 8 months and in the ... (read in full...)

Two guys at work are fighting over me! Who do I choose?

Q.   At work I've met these two guys and I don't know who to choose between - they both have asked me out. They have even started to dislike each other because they both want to go out with me and they both tried to play off of each other to win me over, ...

A.   8 May 2007: I say forget them both, If they are not mature enough to not fight over you like third graders then they don't deserve you. ... (read in full...)

We're both still virgins, after three attempts!

Q.   Hi, I have tried to have sex with my girlfriend. We are both virgins and I can't seem to get inside her. I've been given advice and done everything like lots of foreplay, being relaxed, alcohol, use lubricant, using fingers to open it up, condoms,...

A.   23 July 2006: To be completely honest. It is going to hurt like hell. How old are you? If you are any younger than 17, just wait another year. You might not be fully developed. Trust me, it took times before my ex b/f could come near to "putting it in" I even ... (read in full...)

My best friend moved without saying goodbye!

Q.   The worst possible thing that could've happend to me, did. My best friend Tasha left me and moved to Texas. About 3 nights before she left, I went over to her house and she told me that she was going to Texas to stay. As soon as she said that I ...

A.   13 July 2006: That's the sad part.....I don't know where she was going in Texas. That's a big state. Her parents won't tell me because we had a big argument and don't talk anymore.... (read in full...)

What shall I do about my gay friend?

Q.   I fell in love with a guy named Mike he is very attractive and he is very kind. He laid out the mat when I fell for him. He is gay....which is a really weird situation for me. He says I am the only woman he could or ever would go gay for. I don't ...

A.   14 June 2006: I Have taken everyones advice about mike and haven't talked to him in about a week, since i posted this question he keeps spreading rumores but i make it clear to everyone that confronts me that he is just lying. He has even went as far as telling ... (read in full...)

It makes me feel like crap everytime he talks about her

Q.   hi, well when boyfreind and i were talking on teh phone and he told me that he was wipped by his ex and not me. he also once told me that she gave him everything i could not. this made me feel like crap i mean does that mean he would get bak with ...

A.   2 June 2006: If he makes you feel like crap then why are you with him? Get guts and tell him to take a hike. He shouldn't have a girlfriend if he is still hooked on an ex. ... (read in full...)

He talked me into anal on the basis that I'm still - technically - a virgin. That doesn't make it feel any better though!

Q.   I am a 16 yr old girl. I have been involved with the same guy for 2 years. We both had are both sexual experience together. Ii went down on him but he is pressuring sex on me and I keep saying no. So now he has talked me into anal sex, saying I...

A.   9 January 2006: If you don't want to do something sexual with this guy then tell him. If a guy is pressuring you to have sex maybe you should rethink the whole relationship. It is not acceptable for him to pressure you into any kind of sex. All that matters is how ... (read in full...)

My fiance asked a lady co-worker of mine to sleep with us on New Year's Eve! Are girls her "thing"?

Q.   i am a 25 yr old male New Years Eve my fiance and i went out and ran into a co worker of mine who is also female .we all got drunk and my fiance started touching me in a sexual way in the car in front of her on the way home.then my fiance asked her ...

A.   9 January 2006: maybe your fiance was feeling unsure of how you would react to her way. She probably thought that if she acted upon it and didn't say anything it would make the situation go away.... (read in full...)

There's a girl I'm interested in, but I wonder if I'm financial and/or entertaining enough to date her

Q.   Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me. I'm 18 and I have just started a relationship with this girl i really like although we have only known each other for a short period of time. We both really like each other but I have a lack of e...

A.   12 October 2005: I think you need to get to know eachother a little better before you start rushing into things. After you get to know her more than you'll know exactly what to do when those times get hard... (read in full...)

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