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I would have left this married man if I could!

Q.   I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go ...

A.   17 February 2011: "i would have left him if i could have" You still can. You are not chained to this man or this life. Reinvent yourself. Leave the area if you have to. It has been said of cheaters "if they do it to their wives/husbands GF/BF, the... (read in full...)

I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!

Q.   Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I...

A.   17 February 2011: Dirtball's advice is spot on. But if you are still determined to hold on to it, please read below suppose this: "We've been together with a few on and offs since 2009" led to you two being "on" yet again in the near future? If you do... (read in full...)

I asked my abusive partner to leave and he won't!

Q.   I have been with my partner over a year now , he moved in just a week after we met, the lies had already started..I lent him moneu and never got it back and he lied what he did with it.. drugs actually, i know he loves me but he finds it fun to put ...

A.   16 February 2011: Please leave. I know where this is headed, and it is not something you wish upon yourself. Believe me when I tell you that YOU DO NOT DESERVE THIS. Empower yourself from within. You are stronger than you think. You owe it to yourself to get away... (read in full...)

How do I get over a guy I see five days a week at work?

Q.   I'm 18 and head over heels in love with a co worker (24yrs old). We used to be really close friends, going out to the pub on lunch breaks always giggling and chatting - two great personality matches, it was perfect. He is a flirt, not just with me ...

A.   16 February 2011: "How do I get over a guy I see five days a week at work?" Maybe this can help: "But he has a girlfriend who he has been with for a couple of years." and this: "He lives with his gf they rent a house and have just moved in, he says he's... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about these message-alerts?

Q.   Question? Does "zoosk website" send message alert to random people or subscribers only? I found "zoosk" a couple different occasions on my boyfriend email box? Should I worry? Just wondering?... Thank you. ...

A.   16 February 2011: You are able to view his inbox which means that he is either very trustworthy or you have accessed it unknowingly. If its the former than I dont think you have anything to worry about. If it is the latter than please proceed to read advice b... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's friends pressure him to be single like them. He broke up with me, but immediately regretted it. Should I trust him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for 14 months. We are both 17. Our relationship has been very good. We love spending time together and have lots of fun. We rarely have disagreements, but when we do, we are able to talk things over ...

A.   16 February 2011: Sure all is well now that you both had that heart to heart. But what about the next time his "friends" pressure him? Is he going to be strong enough to stick to his guns? What if they really put the pressure on him heavily? What then? Will he cave? ... (read in full...)

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